u/ExpensiveDisk3573

Recently I (25M) started dating a girl (25F) from my college about 2 months ago, we're both in grad school in the same computer science program and she went on a trip to Cabo for a school club trip two weeks ago. She always posts daily on her insta spam story and I noticed that for a couple days her insta didn't post anything. At first I thought it was nothing but she's very hot and cold with some avoidant attachment and something just felt off because I thought there would be atleast like one daily within 3-4 days. I checked her profile that day and saw that I no longer was able to see her story highlights on the account either, even though I swear there were like three story highlights on it. Assuming it was just my typical poor memory being inconsistent I thought nothing of it until today when I see her post on her story and when I checked the profile the story highlights were back. I'm not really sure what to make of it to be honest because she's very avoidant but also I know she's removed me from it in the past before because she slyly mentioned it one time. I'm not really sure what to do or what it means either. Does anyone have advice?

Just switched to focalin because adderall was meh for me. Recently I've been having an issue where music from a song I played in the day gets stuck in my head in a loop, and it's very hard for me to focus or think straight just because it's so noticeable and distracting. It's just a couple seconds of the song looping over and over, and sometimes it's even one of my own songs (if I was making music that day). I was just wondering if meds quieted this part of your mind or not because it's very frustrating and feels like it only really goes away if I have some other form of white or brown noise playing.