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Excuse my language but how the fuck is two possibly worse than this, she’s 13 months old and SCREAMS, turns red, literally sounds like she’s in pain if you tell her no, try to put her to sleep, hell even if you just shake your head no at her. It honestly doesn’t bother me besides worrying something’s wrong because she literally sounds like she’s in pain when all you did was say no. Maybe it’s normal but I have never in all my childhood years seen a 1 year old act like this.

Edit: I want to add she throws herself on the ground and thrashes while she screams, I’ve had to tell our family to not react just sit there calmly until she’s done so she doesn’t see that it makes us react

What am I supposed to do? She’s 12 almost 13 months, I know tantrums are a thing, and I’m not frustrated that shes having them. I’m just unsure of what to do when it happens. I really want to raise a well mannered kid that doesn’t always cry to get their way type of thing. I never give in to what she wants but I’m not sure if I should try to talk her though the feelings, if I should just ignore the tantrums, or what I’m supposed to do