u/ExoticIncome18

My son wants to do a lemonade stand this weekend, I said ok earlier this week & kinda forgot abt it until last night- I don’t want him upset or disappointed if nobody comes so I been trying to think of a good location to set up at where he can get a few customers & been stuck on location ideas all night! Now I’m not looking to pay my rent with this money LOL(meaning I’m not trying to make hundreds by any means) but I do want him to be happy with the outcome. Where’s some good locations where families or people in general may be? Doesn’t just have to be in Saint Paul but also wasn’t sure where to make this post at either so if u have any suggestions on where else to post that would be helpful. We are making homemade fresh lemonade regular & strawberry maybe blueberry as well. Also is $1 too cheap? $2? I know it prob depends on cup size I’m definitely not going to use small Dixie cups I want people to feel like they’re getting a good deal. I’m prob thinking way too much into this lol 😂

My son wants to do a lemonade stand this weekend, I said ok earlier this week & kinda forgot abt it until last night- I don’t want him upset or disappointed if nobody comes so I been trying to think of a good location to set up at where he can get a few customers & been stuck on location ideas all night! Now I’m not looking to pay my rent with this money LOL(meaning I’m not trying to make hundreds by any means) but I do want him to be happy with the outcome. Where’s some good locations where families or people in general may be? Doesn’t just have to be in Saint Paul but also wasn’t sure where to make this post at either so if u have any suggestions on where else to post that would be helpful. We are making homemade fresh lemonade regular & strawberry maybe blueberry as well. Also is $1 too cheap? $2? I know it prob depends on cup size I’m definitely not going to use small Dixie cups I want people to feel like they’re getting a good deal. I’m prob thinking way too much into this lol 😂

I’ve been in a relationship for over a year and it started off great but for a year it hasn’t been. I feel like he’s not in love with me anymore matter a fact I really am like 95% sure he isn’t in love with me but i think he has love for me. He don’t tell me he love me anymore I’m not his screensaver like I used to be he won’t let me have his phone pw and he don’t fight for me unless I threaten to leave and he assumes it’s with another man. I know I been settling for crumbs and I think it’s bc I just want love and affection that he barely gives. I stay for the hopes that he might give me whatever attention I’m looking for. If we’re fighting and I’m mad at him and ignore him I’m ok with not talking, if he’s the one ignoring me then it drives me absolutely nuts & idk why that is? I don’t mind leaving him but once he’s okay with it and match’s that energy I immediately freak out. Idk if it’s a control thing but I really do love him I’m just tired of settling but I can’t just leave. My bpd kicks in only when he’s okay with md leaving. I guess what I’m saying is I know I deserve better. How do I leave him without the fear of abandonment kicking in then choosing to stay for the crumbs I get instead of leaving and never looking back? We do have a 5mon old together and I do love him, but I know he isn’t in love with me like he was. How do I get rid of the “control” or whatever it is I’m looking for ? Idk if it’s actually control or if it’s me playing games hoping to get a reaction of him caring. I’ve never been treated like this before I’ve never been treated so now and felt so unwanted before but I stay? What kind of questions do I need to ask myself to figure out why I’m not walking away and allowing this shitty treatment