u/Existing-Contract-41

Almost two weeks ago, I got my grammostola pulchra. I tried to feed her once by putting a roach in her terrarium, they ended up sitting next to each other for a very long time, she was staring at it and didn't do anything so I left it overnight and the roach was still alive in the morning so I took it out. I thought maybe it was too fast for her, so in the evening, I crushed its head and put it in front of the entrance to her hide, she didn't eat it anyway.

Yesterday, I tried to feed her again. She was sitting next to the entrance to her hide, so I offered the roach to her by holding it. After a couple of minutes without any movement, the roach touched her leg and she ran back into her hide.

So my question is if she is fasting or there's something wrong with the food?

I don't think she is in premolt. I think she molted 1-2 months ago, but I can't be sure.

(some pictures of her because she's pretty :>)

I just got this baby, and I'm wondering if I should feed her or wait? She climbs a lot and I'm afraid if I feed her she'll get thicc and possibly hurt herself

I also got teeny tiny little spiderlings (neoholothele incei, lasiodora parahybana, lasiocyano sazimai, a. geniculata) and everyone except neoholotele are 0.5cm. They're so small I don't know what to feed them. I gave them the smallest cockroaches I had(around 0.5cm), and only neoholothele ate it. The rest ran away from it, so I just took it out.

So my question is if I should buy them fruit flies or what?

I got them on tuesday and they didn't eat since they're at my place. Won't they die of hunger?