I (35 F) have been seeing someone casually for a few months. He started as a friend and its kind of turned into a FWB situation. Im 5'10 and about 260 lb carried proportionately with a big chest and butt but I also have a belly. I try to take care of myself, eat healthy, get exercise a few times a week. I do have a desk job and a sweet tooth to be fair but I have been working to lose weight and im always mindful of what I eat and how much.
Regardless he will mention in passing conversation about how attractive some women are and will almost always include how tight or small their bodies are and I get it, its attractive. As a bi woman I can 100% appreciate that. But it seems thats his type in general. I mentioned that,it makes me feel a bit insecure knowing im bigger and not his type and while thats fine because we are just being casual I dont always want to me reminded of it because it can make me insecure during intimacy.
He told me past men I have been with who told me they liked my body type werent being 100% honest and basically that no man prefers a bigger woman. I kust want to know, is this always true? I know people have different types but are men always just settling when they are with bigger women?