Great first date, then silence, is he just not interested?
I (25F) had been talking to a guy (27M) on bumble for a few weeks before we finally met last weekend. The date felt great to me, we had dinner, good conversation, lots of laughs, and overall seemed to click.
Before the date, he was texting regularly (every day or every other day), always friendly and engaged. After the date, he texted to say he got home and that he had a good time. I replied and thanked him.
But since then, communication has dropped off completely. I reached out yesterday to ask how he’s doing, and he didn’t respond for about 12 hours, just saying he’s “okay.”
My gut feeling is that he’s just not that into me and maybe didn’t enjoy the date as much as I did. I haven’t dated in a while, so I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this.
Would appreciate any perspective.