u/Euphoric_Emotion_169

I think i finally lost my mind but i still can't figure out how tf this works.

How REAL straight women react on lesbian porn? Because all i see is that straight women only aroused or at least neutral about it. Lesbian and gay men disgust by straight sex, straight men disgust by gay sex and only straight women seems to be unique in this question because they not disgusted by sex with gender they not prefer, on the contrary, they often find it arousal.

I recently asked this question for only STRAIGHT women on the r/women subreddit and again most these "STRAIGHT" women responded that they find it arousal despite being straight, which again only increased my paranoia. Why is that? What's the reason? Straight women who are TRULY straight and don't watch lesbian porn, how do you react when see two women have sex?

I ask this question because I found it strange that the reactions of straight men and straight women to same sex actions seem to be opposite. So, to clarify, heterosexual women, what do you feel when you see lesbian sex? Repulsion, neutrality, or even arousal?

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 I have gained a bit of a reputation on this subreddit and want to make it clear that I am not a fetishist or a troll. I'm just a guy with OCD who really doesn't have many female friends, but what I observe and what I'm surrounded by leads me to the conclusion that strict heterosexuality is just a rare phenomenon among women. Everyone tells me it's selection bias but it's TOO common to be just selection bias.

 I constantly see an increasing number of bisexual girls, I constantly see girls saying things like “I always see beautiful girls and very few attractive guys” or “I would prefer to watch a female striptease rather than a male one, a female body is more attractive.” I see women recording videos where they say “they are no better than men” because they themselves stare and drool at women’s breasts and butts. I see the popularity of lesbian songs like I kissed a girl or we fell in love in October. I see girls happily kissing on the lips and having sexual contact with each other.

 In addition, we all know about the popularity of lesbian porn among women. Statistics and women themselves speak about this, I even came across such girls in random settings, and some of them even claimed that they were homophobic, so again, this cannot simply be biased selection. This is such a common phenomenon that there is even a Wikipedia article dedicated to it (as are gynephilic tendencies in women in general). Let's not forget about the list of studies according to which heterosexual women show the same or more sexual reaction to photos of naked female bodies than to male ones. That is, this is confirmed by both practice and theory.

The last straw came when I went to one Russian forum and there was a discussion with the question “does male nudity turn you on?” to which most women responded that they were more turned on by female nudity, although they were heterosexual. Although this is homophobic Russia.

I mean, WTF? Of course after all this I will be confused and question the existence of female heterosexuality, because it is EVERYWHERE. As a straight guy, this frustrates me and demotivates me to dating, so in my OCD obsession, I ask these questions, hoping to receive convincing refutations.

At this point in my life, I really honestly think that almost all women are by default visually aroused by other women, and that this is hard-wired on a biological level. The argument that this is the influence of mass sexualization of women's bodies in the media seems dubious to me, since for some reason gay men do not express such lust for women. So I'm wondering, what are the reasons for such biology, if humans, like any species, are aimed at reproducing?

Why are straight women extremely turned on by lesbian porn, while lesbians mostly express disgust towards it and prefer gay male porn (opinions I've mostly heard from both groups)? I mean WTF? Shouldn't it be the other way around? Why is female sexuality so confusing and illogical? I think this is exactly what people mean when they say "women are hard to understand."

JOKES ASIDE women are more visually aroused by female bodies than by male ones (this is also confirmed by research and the women themselves), they watch lesbian porn because they find heterosexual sex unpleasant to look at, they say they prefer looking at women's nudes to men's, and they find the male body generally ugly. As we can see, women experience lust (at least visually) primarily for other women, so what, then, motivates them to have sex with men?

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