u/EthanA-melia

My parents, who are sexist, and misogynistic, transphobic, and even homophobic, and against anything thats "woke" are making me change my body because of my graduation, which is a whole month away and they're making me do it early because of graduation photos and a dress fitting.

They dont let me cut my hair even if its been years since i've cutted it for the excuse of "im not a boy" and now their excuse is my graduation. Even through the person they say they care about seeing the photos is a female with SHORT HAIR.

Many people and even my extended family said thats its my graduation and i should do what i want. One of my family members suggested converse with my dress but my mom said no because i said i wanted a dress with a slit.

Originally i was supposed to wear a suit but then all of a sudden my mom forces me to wear a dress which i feel very uncomfortable about dresses and body shames me so her plan of me eating ess works so that i fit in said dress...

I am forced to shave my legs and armpit hair so "i look good." And when i protest i get hit, and get called dramatic and disgusting.

I have a deep fear that my leg hair and my armpit hair wont grow back but my parents just dont care.

Im in tears, and most of my friends are gone and the ones i do have are trans and they have parents who still love them for coming out and but if i were to come out i will be disowned, i came out before but they forced me to distranstion. And even when i said my friends are trans they tried to even distranstion my friends... they still use my old transition name as a way to mock me.

When i told my dad about my body dysphoria instead of understanding it he just just says that my body dysphoria is me starting to identify as something im not to supposed to. I get body dysphoria because my family are trying to make me change into someone im not.