I asked her out - whats the verdict
Sent her this morning: "You free sometime this week? We should go to [venue]. [followed by a relevant inside joke]"
She replied within minutes, asking if I was free on Saturday. I said I have work. She then corrected my inattentive ADHD brain — "Maybe not this week lol" — and sent a screenshot showing the venue is closed for most of this week. Then asked what days I was free next week. I said only Mon-Wed. She responded:
"Let's wait till the week after then" — (so likely 20th or 21st).
She did the logistical checks. She worked around two scheduling conflicts to keep the plan alive. That's not how disinterested responses look. "I'm busy" is one message. This was four.
The odds aren't 90% but they're well above a coin flip. We have a rough plan and a venue. I was paranoid the entire time — 130bpm sitting down over a Snapchat. Apple Watch called me out lol.
Agree I should have checked their website first. You could argue I could have switched to a different place, but this one aligns with the inside joke between us. And complicating it would paint the picture that I'm desperate.
My work schedule is busy - full-time employed and doing MBA, so scheduling this may be hard - but she remembers this.
CONTEXT (ORIGINAL POST)
She (21F, INFP) and I have known each other for 4 years. I've seen her romantically for about a year, and the signs have gradually become less and less platonically defensible.
A few weeks ago, after a group dinner, she was in my car outside her place and, unprompted, said — with a nervous chuckle, my parents aren't home, then slower and warmer: We can definitely meet up sometime.