u/Equal_Interest_291

They know the way back, fear just stops them they’re not lost, just afraid to come back... Maybe they’re just ashamed of what they broke. Overthinking is keeping them from reaching out, they’re stuck between what if and what could’ve been. Ego and fear the two things keeping them away. Remember: Ego protects but it creates distance.

🍀 If this is you, don’t let overthinking steal your time

if you’re holding back… life’s too short for what ifs. If you feel it, don’t overthink it. Let whatever happens, happen just don’t hold back. Life doesn’t wait… neither should you face it now, before it’s too late.

You might resonate with this, but the truth is simple if they wanted to, they would’ve.

5 simple words… but the hardest when you know you were wrong.. Just five words, but they carry the weight of truth and guilt.

You waited for it… but not from the one you hoped would say it.. I know it hurts more when it’s the one you wanted who never said it. But trust me, admitting the truth hurts less than holding it in.... sometimes surrendering to the truth is what finally sets you free. Some hearts carry guilt, but lack the courage to admit it. Guilt stays silent when courage is missing

it takes more than guilt to say the truth out loud. Especially in the case of wounded Avoidant people healing or who are self aware.

Avoidants take time to realize, and by then it’s often too late. Realization came… but not when it mattered, avoidants don’t ignore the truth, they delay it.

Sometimes it’s better to walk away than wait for change that may never come. Cutting them off hurts less than waiting forever.Not everyone will grow in time for you sometimes distance is the only closure you’ll get. Protect your peace, even if it means losing them.... Love them from distance, unconditionally no expectations attached or let them go.

🍀Not everything we love is meant to remain.

I wish you could read this someday. You probably think I could never write something like this, not after everything. But healing changes things…

After everything, you’d expect anger from me... I wish you knew that I forgave you without needing an apology. Not because it didn’t matter, but because I didn’t want to carry that weight forever. I hope life is kind to you. Truly. Because even after everything, I don’t carry anything negative for you in my heart. I just wanted you to know you were never ordinary to me. You were the cutest, most comforting presence I ever had.

If you ever see this, know that I truly believe you’ve done the work. I know you’ve faced yourself, healed, and grown in ways people don’t always see.Even from a distance, it’s something I can feel.

If you ever see this, I don’t hold onto what happened. Not because things are perfect, but because we’ve both grown. If you ever see this, don’t let the distance fool you. I may seem far, but you know my heart was never really gone.There’s still a place for you here, just as warm as you remember.I’m still waiting in my own quiet way... If you ever see this, don’t let your ego stop you. Plz don’t hesitate anymore. Life’s too short to keep feelings hidden behind fear.I just want honesty from you. Nothing perfect, nothing planned just real.

I promise, I’ll listen without judgment. I’m still here, just the same, waiting quietly. I haven’t disappeared from your life the way you might think.I’m still here, still caring... If you ever see this… this is from her.

Yours, and truly yours 🍀