Basically people have been saying to me to try using a unique greeting for my crush to see if he does the same, what could I do? I typically say hi to everyone or variations of hi, i would say I’m a bubbly person so what can I say that is unique to my crush to see if he does the same to me and only me??
So, he finally looked at my story, after a really long time, so like, clearly he wasn’t completely deterred, but does that still mean something or not?? I’m so confused…
So, my crush has my insta, he consistently watches my stories and really early on. I put a thing on my story without even thinking, not even about him, about finding ‘my Jim’ (Jim Halpert from the office) and he only viewed that one and now he won’t view any more of my stories. I’m a really consistent story poster and he consistently watches them but he isn’t now. Did I mess up?? Or is everything ok?? Does this even mean anything??
So, my crush has my insta, he consistently watches my stories and really early on. I put a thing on my story without even thinking, not even about him, about finding ‘my Jim’ (Jim Halpert from the office) and he only viewed that one and now he won’t view any more of my stories. I’m a really consistent story poster and he consistently watches them but he isn’t now. Did I mess up?? Or is everything ok?? Does this even mean anything??
Basically I post a lot on my story and the guy I like watches them pretty early on from when he comes online, and I am filled with absolute dread because I post whatever comes to mind on my story, so I put on something about Jim Halpert from the office, not even thinking about him, but about how I want to find my Jim, and he’s watched that story and none of the ones after that, it’s so small but I think he’s possibly connected dots, or I’m just going insane with my paranoia, convince me it’s going to be ok or be brutally honest with me
We have eachothers instagrams, I get major vibes and we work together. I post on my story a lot, which he looks at really early on, so how can I get him to message me first?? (I am painfully shy around him)
I know that nowadays guys don’t do that as much, but I feel like a lot of them don’t realise if you’re getting hints, a girl might like you too. You might as well just try, which I know is completely hypocritical of me, because I’m too afraid to message the guy I like. We work together and I like him a lot, I get some very subtle vibes (he’s an introvert so) and I mean the last guy I got vibes from I was right, so I clearly have a good streak. But how do I get him to message me first?? I have his insta, we follow each other, I like posting on my story because I have free will, so he’s always viewing them super early on, we have mutuals too from work, but he doesn’t post stories so I can’t really start any kind of conversation without it being super casual. So how do I subtly prompt him to give it a try at least just to test the waters?? (I’m a super shy extrovert, or like an introverted extrovert where I’m like bat shit crazy until I’m around like strangers, or, people I like and don’t know exactly what to do, and I immediately shrink into my shell, unless I’m around good people, it’s hard to explain but I also have really fluctuating self confidence, so, I won’t be messaging him, you best know that)
I like this one guy from my work, he’s a couple of years older than me, super cute, but very very introverted unless he’s around people he likes, he’s started relaxing around me a lot which hasn’t really helped how much I like him. How can I prompt him to message me, or be in contact with me?? I don’t want to message first, but I would like to subtly guide him to message me
So, I have this coworker, he’s maybe 2 years older than me, and I like, really like him. A lot. He’s talked to me a little before, but at work I’m a major extrovert. Maybe mid last month I finally requested him on insta after finally getting enough coworkers so that it wouldn’t be suspicious because despite the fact I’m a very emotional, dramatic and I can’t hide anything on my face person I’m good at hiding crushes. He requested me back maybe 20 minutes later, he looks at all my stories pretty early if he’s online, and not all at the same time, but he’s not reached out or liked them. Hes a bit nervous, a little geeky so if I am catching a vibe from him, I know he’s probably shy about it. We’ve started waving bye to eachother after work, and today specifically I was talking to his close coworker saying bye and he was waving for like a minute to say bye to me and when I finally looked up and waved back he did this little look up and down on my face. So, am I insane and an overthinker, or is there a tiny vibe there??
I like this one guy, and he’s consistently watched my story early, but now, he’s watching my story today (I put 3 things) but like, one at a time?? As in he watched the first one like at the beginning of the day (he’s been at uni all day today), then like the second at the end of the day, but not the third one?? Despite all 3 being up when he watched the first one… I’m so confused. (Context; he’s also been watching my stories super early all other times when he’s not at uni)