u/EnderHeartKat

Is anyone else having the same issues in the asexual dating reddit?

I’m wondering if anyone is having issues like I am with so many scammers/bots as I had to block a total of 5 already and all were from Africa,India,and UAE I even have that I’m from US aka America and they still try and message me it’s getting old I’m just on there trying to find a decent bf but so far it’s been scammers/bots or male sexual predators I just wanna know if others are going through the same😡

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u/EnderHeartKat — 5 days ago

Looking for friends or a relationship F4M,34,US

About me and what I’m looking for

💜 I’m a straight woman, 34, looking for a straight guy around 30–45.

💜 I’m hoping to find a kind, respectful, monogamous boyfriend who is accepting of neurodivergent women and understands that everyone connects differently.

💜 I’m sex-repulsed, so I’m looking for someone who is either the same way or fully comfortable with a relationship that doesn’t include sex.

💜 I’m also not looking for kids, marriage, kissing, or cuddling. I know that makes my dating pool smaller, but I’m being honest about what would make me feel safe and happy in a relationship.

💜 What I do want is companionship, trust, emotional closeness, loyalty, and someone who genuinely enjoys spending time together.

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u/EnderHeartKat — 6 days ago

If anyone is interested in adding me to the game then here is my code 189029187198 both this game and pokopia have been an escape for me lately as I’ve been dealing with a lot lately

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u/EnderHeartKat — 11 days ago

I’ve tried it in the past 3 yrs ago back when it was new and just a website only but I had a very bad experience of ppl telling me a guy will never want me unless I show a pic of who I am and I don’t believe in doing so until I know stuff is serious and will workout but maybe it has changed since then and I’m only asking because the asexual dating reddit on here with my comment I keep getting fake spam bot or hyper sexual men trying to DM me and it’s driving me nuts lol 🤣 but plz explain if AceSpace is worth it or not

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u/EnderHeartKat — 11 days ago

💜Hey everyone my name is Isabelle and I’m a 34 yr old female that is on the autism spectrum and I’m also asexual and dating/finding love has been hard for me as I tried looking for a bf since I was 16 with no luck sadly men just don’t understand me I also realized I was ace when I realized sex and sex acts were repulsive and gross just the thought of it and even kisses and cuddles makes me feel ewww

💜anyways some stuff about me-

💜I’m Straight and into guys only I also prefer older

💜I don’t do poly/open either as that’s cheating and being used so don’t ask if you do that’s an automatic block

💜I don’t want kissing or cuddling,marriage or kids either as I’ve never been into touchy feely and I also can’t handle loud noises since I’m on the autism spectrum so if you want any of those then DNI(Do Not Interact) with this post or message me

💜what I want in a relationship is a guy that respects and likes me for me and we talk about interests and hangout, maybe do walks on the beach or do hiking in the forest and enjoy nature or even playing video games/bored games I mean there are other ways to show interest in one another then kissing/cuddling

💜not into anything sexual as I find it nasty and repulsive I’m also scared of kissing/cuddling because it can lead to sex

💜I like video games like Mario,Sonic,Pokemon,and sports games

💜I’m a huge NBA fan as my team is the Phoenix Suns but I’m ok with the NBA as a whole as I enjoy basketball I also enjoy baseball(don’t have an MLB team)

💜I don’t believe in showing face reveals till I know stuff is serious and gonna work out so like 2-3 months so plz don’t ask or beg for me to show who I am as that to me is rude

💜I also prefer companionship where it’s like a relationship but without all the ick included as I’ve been hurt,lied to,and really misunderstood in the past with attempting finding love but I hope there is some guy out there that will understand me and give me a chance if you wanna know more about me then send a DM or comment on this post we

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u/EnderHeartKat — 12 days ago

As the post suggests I would like to know some suggestions on where to find a sex repulsed guy that’s also not into marriage,kids,and kissing/cuddling as I’m a straight 34 yr old female that has been trying since I was 16 with no luck at all. I realized I was ace when I noticed I didn’t like the thought of sex as it grosses me out and makes me very uncomfortable and no I don’t have childhood trauma I just find it gross. If anyone suggests AceSpace I’ve already tried it and no luck other then ppl telling me no guy is ever gonna want me unless I have a picture of myself which I found very rude so I’m at a loss what to do any help or advice is appreciated.

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u/EnderHeartKat — 12 days ago