Been married almost 8 years. We have a daughter, 8 years old. He is a loving dad. We have fallen apart however. He is obsessed with his business, nothing has changed, it has always been like this.
I am feeling so resentful as I pay half of everything, do the grocery shopping, schedule, figure out childcare, our bills etc, and the kicker is the dog. He never walks him or feeds him unless I ask multiple times. I do go to the gym, try to get out and do things once and a while, but I am starting to hate the person I am becoming.
He would not cheat, he would never file for divorce, he is not a bad or violent person.
We have tried couples counseling, always turns into talking about the problems in his business weirdly. Have asked him to help meal plan, get nowhere w this, tried to have a schedule, another fail. Tried date nights, he is like dragging someone to do something he isn’t into.
I guess I am just venting but how long until you go your separate ways?
And financially in the state I live in, seems impossible to get my own place.
Sorry for bitching, just looking for perspective if I was to move forward to separate.