u/EmployeeNo1103

So I’ve been going to the gym consistently for a while now, 4 days a week, and I’ve kept it up. I do carry a decent amount of body fat but I’m not starting from zero, I’ve built some consistency and I want to build on that.

Recently I tried boxing and honestly loved it. It was brutal but in a good way. I also want to get into running and pick up something social like tennis or any sport where you’re actually playing with a small group of people rather than just grinding solo.

My question is, is this too much to take on at once? I’m not trying to become an athlete overnight, I just genuinely want an active lifestyle where I’m doing different things and actually enjoying movement rather than just showing up to the gym out of habit.

For context I’m 21, I weigh 100kg, and I'm 181 cm tall.

Has anyone made a similar transition? How did you balance it all without burning out or overwhelming yourself?

I really want to get ur takes on this, if selling vini is the real solution or getting a new manager that can discipline him.

Look i do like vini, the 2024 run was incredible but we can all agree that his behaviors on the pitch are terrible and he is very inconsistent player. He will be amazing at one game and dominate the left wing, then the next 3 games he will just cry at being booed at. What do you guys really think about this?

So I (22M) graduated about a year ago, started working. Honestly, work is fine and I don’t mind it at all. But the moment I come back home, especially on weekends, something just feels off.

Most of my friends have left the country. I barely see my parents. So I’ve been trying to fill my time, picked up an instrument, watch shows, go on random drives, work out during the week. But that one day off still feels… empty. Not sad. Not depressing. Just hollow. Like I’m waiting for the weekend, it finally comes, and then I’m just killing time until the next day rolls around.

I genuinely love my apartment. It’s my space, it reflects who I am, and I feel comfortable there. But even that can only do so much when there’s no one to share anything with.

I’ve also been single for a little over a year now. And the weird part is, I’m not even looking. I like the idea of being with someone, but I’m not motivated to pursue it. I think a past experience kind of killed that drive for me.

So I guess my questions are:
• Is this feeling normal for someone my age in this situation?
• Is it just a phase that passes?
• What do you actually do when your social circle shrinks and you’re mostly on your own?
Not looking for therapy recommendations necessarily, just genuine perspectives from people who’ve been through something similar.