How do you handle these relatives ?
Do you guys have close relatives who are straight up passive aggressive and manipulate who acts like they like you and care about you but deep down yk they hate you?
I have my fair share or them and tbh i just don’t like to be fake to people and would rather stay away from them rather than trying to communicate or mingle with them in the name of family or respect? And that attitude of mine has pissed a lot of my family members and cousins.
This goes for my grandparents, brothers and sisters from my dad’s side as well. They expect me to maintain a relationship with them whereas they have always been cunning towards me from the beginning compared to my mom’s side. I just don’t like to fake it and have small talks with anyone who i don’t vibe with and in the end i end up being the mean one.