u/Emergency_Buddy_5170

(sorry if this is all over the place I didn’t plan any of this story and a lot of what happened was recent)

for context, our friend group has recently added this girl. we’ve gotten somewhat close in the past few months. i had surgery recently so ive still been able to go out and hang out, but not do anything physical so if we go to someone’s house im usually just on the couch

At first I somewhat liked this girl but not fully into it. After my surgery, however, i noticed she started to sit next to me and talk to me a lot more. eventually we started just sitting closer to each other and now whenever we hangout we’re basically “on top” of each other.

the issues start coming about with her other friends. they talked to me for a bit and at this point i know i like her and she likes me (based on what she’s done/ they’ve said). however, they’re worried that if we start talking and getting closer to each other, if something goes wrong then it becomes awkward for everyone. which i fully understand and neither of us want to be the one to cause it.

i know that i like her and don’t want to stop, im worried because of this she’s going to become more distant and im just gonna feel like even worse shit than i already do. i won’t really know until the next time we hangout (probably the weekend) or if i just talk to her about it 1 on 1, which based on the situation i don’t think is a good idea.

all in all i dont want to make things awkward, i also dont want her to think im losing interest (because i wont) but there’s a part of me telling me that she will (even though i really didn’t do a lot for her to like me in the first place) and if we stop talking it’ll just get more awkward

im open for input, i just dont wanna keep thinking about this too much. which was my original plan until i was told she wanted me to make a move.

(sorry if this is all over the place I didn’t plan any of this story and a lot of what happened was recent)

for context, our friend group has recently added this girl. we’ve gotten somewhat close in the past few months. i had surgery recently so ive still been able to go out and hang out, but not do anything physical so if we go to someone’s house im usually just on the couch

At first I somewhat liked this girl but not fully into it. After my surgery, however, i noticed she started to sit next to me and talk to me a lot more. eventually we started just sitting closer to each other and now whenever we hangout we’re basically “on top” of each other.

the issues start coming about with her other friends. they talked to me for a bit and at this point i know i like her and she likes me (based on what she’s done/ they’ve said). however, they’re worried that if we start talking and getting closer to each other, if something goes wrong then it becomes awkward for everyone. which i fully understand and neither of us want to be the one to cause it.

i know that i like her and don’t want to stop, im worried because of this she’s going to become more distant and im just gonna feel like even worse shit than i already do. i won’t really know until the next time we hangout (probably the weekend) or if i just talk to her about it 1 on 1, which based on the situation i don’t think is a good idea.

all in all i dont want to make things awkward, i also dont want her to think im losing interest (because i wont) but there’s a part of me telling me that she will (even though i really didn’t do a lot for her to like me in the first place) and if we stop talking it’ll just get more awkward

im open for input, i just dont wanna keep thinking about this too much. which was my original plan until i was told she wanted me to make a move.