u/Electronic-Donut-816

Okay so you’re definitely going to hate me and be mad at me because this is all my fault. So I broke up with my bf 8 months ago and we were dating for a year and a month. It wasn’t anything he did I was in a terrible mindset and a I wasn’t the best girlfriend. But everyday since then I’ve missed him. He’s moved on but I can’t. And ik it’s my fault like I am so so mad at myself for breaking up with him and not being a good girlfriend and everything I feel so horrible for who I was and stuff. I should also note we’re in 8th grade and started dating in 7th we’ve said I love you, hugged and held hands but never kissed. Since it was just middle school do you think in high school I’d have a chance with him if I show him I’m better and changed and I could be a good girlfriend? Side note his whole family and friends hate me so If we ever got back together idk how they would feel.

I wanted to tell someone I did sh when I did it but now I’m clean (only 23 days) it feels like there’s no point on telling anyone but I still want to. I trust my friend and everything I just don’t know if there’s a point on telling her?

This is the most confusing thing ever. We never dated, she liked me im in the closet so I told her I was straight. We are bsf btw and still are. So obviously she moved on I mean i expect her too. I still like her and she had liked me for awhile until I found out she is inlove with her Ex. So I know I have to move on but idk how. Like my heart aches knowing I won’t be with her and it’s completely my fault. Please give me tips because I talk to her daily and see her daily and everytime I think I’m over her I see her in person and I can’t get over her.

I have a crush on this girl, im a girl. She likes me but shes moving on because she thinks i don’t like her because i said i dont and i lied saying im straight. Im just not ready to come out of the closet and if i told her i liked her back we would have to be a secret which is unfair to her since shes out of the closet. I know i need to move on but I’ve never liked anyone as much as i like her. She is probably already moved on so i have no chance but to get over it. I don’t know what to do and how to get over this crush. Im also not a lesbian im bisexual.

I guess this isnt advice but more of a question. I didnt think it was weird to wear a shirt and no bra in front of my dad but i see people talking about it saying it’s weird? Should i not be doing that? Im a teenager and i literally see nothing wrong with it. Should i be ashamed i do it often or no? I just see other people ashamed and stuff idk. Like i also hug him and stuff without wearing a bra should i stop doing that?

Okay so we started being friends before she told me she liked me. Im a girl and im straight so thats what i told her, i told her i hope that doesnt mess up our friendship and she said no it wont i just wanted to tell you it will help me move on. We are really close shes my bsf and my closest friend. But now rumors are getting spread about me that were in a talking stage, that i kiss girls, that im a lesbian. And ive had boyfriends before. Idk what to do bc like to me those rumors arent bad bc i dont think being gay or lesbian is wrong but it’s annoying when its all i hear and i live in a very conservative town. Ive told them many times i dont like girls. I think they think that because we hang out all the time but its just bc shes my bsf. We got close really fast so thats also another factor. I just dont have friends but me and her are so similar so we walk together at school, eat together at lunch and stuff. Which isnt weird but it is only because shes a lesbian. She has other friends that are girls so idk why im being called a lesbian. Idk what to do bc she still likes me, the rumors are getting spread and i dont wanna drop her or anything. Should i just let people talk about me and keep hanging out with her?