I’m not exactly sure when they changed but my lips used to be more even toned and pink. Lately the corners seems darker and overall my lips feel uneven. What can I do to improve the tone? I’m open to things I can do at home or a treatment.
I’m going on a once in a life trip next year and want to be happy with my body and tone up a bit. I bought a package of 30 sessions with a personal trainer to learn how to lift weights, build a routine and learn proper form.
I signed up for a package after 4 sessions with the trainer which were all great. He was engaging, motivating and overall seemed very knowledgeable about fitness.
I’m now on session 10 and something feels different. He seems a bit distracted during the sessions. There’s a female trainer that’s in great shape and conventionally attractive and he continues to steal glances and watching her work with her clients during my session. He doesn’t notice if I finish a set or where I felt off since every so often he walks by her to chime in her conversations with her client or ask her a question. At first I didn’t really care if he was walking away or looking else where until it started impacting my motivation. He does this 3 to 4 times for a minute or 2 so not that much but still impacts my flow.
He is on his phone often and sometimes gives me the same workout again and again where he doesn’t have to really pay attention or actively count my reps. He will glance up from his phone once in a while and say you can do it but I feel it’s lacking all energy.
He has taught me a lot and he does push me when he is present and the other trainer is not there. He still seems like a good trainer outside of these two issues.
During the initial sessions he told me about his wife and his dedication to his family. Now I can’t unsee how he acts like a puppy in love when he interacts with the other female trainer and it’s making me feel less trusting of his professionalism.
I also don’t feel motivated to push myself when he barely uplifts me since he is so distracted. I have canceled the next session and he is upset that I’m not dedicated to my goals. Am I the asshole for wanting to back out of the sessions when I feel my trainer is no longer present during my sessions?