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Spider-man used to wear fancy technological suits Tony Stark probably gave him ever since they fought against Cap in Germany. Now his suit looks like it's made of 3$ fabric. It's unlikely that SI decided to suddenly stop financing him as he appeared in some new cool suits even after Stark died. So is there any known reason for such drastic changes?
In Norse mythology, Ragnarok means the end of everything, including Midgard(basically our world) so isn't it kinda known fact that the world is going to end now that we know it's all real??! Why do everyone keep ignoring this shit?
I mean who's gonna be held accountable for this as we have no slightest idea who Spider-man is? Why aren't there any consequences aside from Daily Buggle yapping? And who the hell were two other guys with similiar powers and suits? I assume they were that jester-masked guy and Night-Monkey from Europe but how did they make it to NYC so fast then?
My(20m) relationship with my family members has been consistently getting worse ever since I moved to a different city and started living on my own.
My mother, as I found out, is some sort of control freak. She calls me almost every day even if there's literally nothing to talk about and guilt trips me if I do something she doesn't like(telling me she couldn't sleep because she was too worried after I didn't tell her about some problems I had at that point etc) For the past year I've been in a really bad state mentally and almost every conversation with her ends with me feeling much-much worse. She does nothing but asks me what am I going to do with my future and what am I doing at the moment and why don't I do better. I can't even speak with her about my mental condition because, surprise-surprise, she doesn't believe such thing is important at all.
So recently when I've been feeling really bad I've stopped answering her calls to not make things worse, and in about five days she texted me that it's very urgent so I did answer. Turns out, the urgent situation was her needing to know what I've been doing and why I wasn't answering, I said that I've been busy and that I couldn't talk about it now as I wasn't even home and had stuff to do. She instantly got mad and asked what did she do that I don't want to speak to her at all so after she started yelling I hung up.
She keeps making everything about herself. I once told her that I had a major depressive episode and suicidal thoughts a few years ago and she replied "I don't even recognize you, do you want me to die by telling me this?" and never spoke about this confession again.
Whenever I visit them she expects me to drop anything I do and go help her and my step-father in the garden almost daily. That wouldn't be so bad if they weren't distracting me from working or stydying. When I was graduating from high school I had to prepare to my finals and when I was telling them so the replied that I can do that after I help them(even when there was literally a week before the exams started). When I last visited them this summer I've stopped obeying that and kept finishing whatever plans I had first, so obviously they were mad at me almost every day and I wasted time arguing about that.
My other family members(aunt, cousin and her grandma) are fine but they will undoubtedly take their side and try to make me reconsider if I decide to go no contact so I don't really see a way to keep contact with them without keeping this whole drama active.
The thing is, I don't even feel affection to any of them. I can't remember almost everything that happened before I was 17 y/o so there's not even a lot of good memories and to be honest there is obviously a reason why my brain blocked almost my whole childhood even if I don't know this reason. I remember in general that my step-father had a drinking problem when I was a teenager and he and my mother fought almost every week over this and some other things.
I know there is a family therapy and I know that I can try and make a first step and explain everything from my pov but I'm too far past the point where I still cared about fixing all this. Whenever I'm considering going no-contact all I regret is "I won't have an additional financial support, that sucks a bit but imma be fine without it" and maybe I feel tiny little bit of guilt cause they probably don't even have an idea what they are doing wrong because that's just how they are.
I just don't feel like it's my responsibility to teach people twice or thrice my age how to respect boundaries and trust someone to make decisions without getting mad when you don't listen to them or tell them anything you're going to do.
TL;DR: I don't like most of my closest relatives as people, my mental health worsens because of their toxic traits and I don't feel any affection to them. I have no desire whatsoever to do anything to fix our bonds and I am considering going no contact