Boyfriend wants to move his brother into our home...
Am I wrong in saying this breaks a boundary for me?
My partner and I have been together for two years and he's proposing sometime this year (he said he wanted it to be a surprise).
Our goal from our first date was to get married, have kids, and buy a house. The whole shabang.
Now his brother is 29, quit his job, and needs a place to stay.
Am I being tyrinical in saying that this isn't what I signed up for?
For context, my partner says it won't be more than a few months, and that there will be ground rules. I am a survivor of DV, and his brother has verbally threatened other family members.
I'm trying to decide if I should just submit and suck it up (it's my partner's name on the mortgage so I have no legal recourse), or do I cut my losses and move out?