u/Dull_Ambition2361

am 20f and he 23m

I met him on reddit starting this year, we chatted and liked each other after a month I blocked him i thought he is getting too attached like if I didn't reply instantly he would sent lot of text so I blocked out of frustration

Then after a month i unblocked him :-idk why We exchanged contacts and started talking he said he wants to meet me he came to my city he said he is not comfortable in public so can we meet in a room I got panicked and blocked him as my friends suggested

He tried to reach me, he was hurt I said sorry but I wanted to go he manage to keep me but after 2 days we started talking normally and I liked him too

He shifted to my city a month ago we haven't met yet Idk if I should He don't know what to do with me he has honesty and transparency but sometimes he says i don't want commitment, we will see later if I say the same thing he is hurt Sometimes I feel he wants a casual relationship but he didn't let me see other guys

Our past My :-it's my first time involved with a guy

His:- he had 3 relationship out of which is a FWB latest ( ended a year ago) she cried for him but he left her Before FWB he was in a very serious relationship whom he use to love a lot but she left him (he was helpless at that time) and came back after a year they got together again but she was double dating (betrayed) he left her after that

It's seems like his past is still controlling him, he say he don't want to love anybody, he says he don't feel anything and don't want to feel like he use to with his ex

We haven't talked since 2 weeks just normal hey, hello Whenever I try to talk he say he is busy with work

At time point of life I don't know what I want

I am 20f and he 23m

I met him on reddit starting this year, we chatted and liked each other after a month I blocked him i thought he is getting too attached like if I didn't reply instantly he would sent lot of text so I blocked out of frustration

Then after a month i unblocked him :-idk why We exchanged contacts and started talking he said he wants to meet me he came to my city he said he is not comfortable in public so can we meet in a room I got panicked and blocked him as my friends suggested He tried to reach me, he was hurt I said sorry but I wanted to go he manage to keep me but after 2 days we started talking normally and I liked him too

He shifted to my city a month ago we haven't met yet Idk if I should He don't know what to do with me he has honesty and transparency but sometimes he says i don't want commitment, we will see later if I say the same thing he is hurt Sometimes I feel he wants a casual relationship but he didn't let me see other guys

Our past My :-it's my first time involved with a guy His:- he had 3 relationship out of which is a FWB latest ( ended a year ago) she cried for him but he left her

Before FWB he was in a very serious relationship whom he use to love a lot but she left him (he was helpless at that time) and came back after a year they got together again but she was double dating (betrayed) he left her after that

It's seems like his past is still controlling him, he say he don't want to love anybody, he says he don't feel anything and don't want to feel like he use to with his ex

We haven't talked since 2 weeks just normal hey, hello Whenever I try to talk he say he is busy with work

At time point of life I don't know what I want A casual relationship or a love relationship