When my girlfriend and I first starting talking she opened up to me about the things she had supposedly done for her family. She had told me about her not going to college , and working strenuous manual labor jobs for quick cash to save up to buy her mom and two sisters a house. It turns out that was all a lie according to her family, but she’s given her coworkers and I the same story and details about it all. This has made all of us to look at her family a certain way because according to my girlfriend she pays all the bills, bought this house, and put her education on hold for them all, and none of it is true. In my opinion I can’t see myself being with someone who would lie about this. If she feels a need to lie about this what else would she lie about in the future? When I ask her to be honest with me about it she’s telling me that she’s been nothing but honest. Her family had no idea that she’s been telling other people any of this. How should I go about things moving forward?
u/Due-Height-9930
When my girlfriend and I first starting talking she opened up to me about the things she had supposedly done for her family. She had told me about her not going to college , and working strenuous manual labor jobs for quick cash to save up to buy her mom and two sisters a house. It turns out that was all a lie according to her family, but she’s given her coworkers and I the same story and details about it all. This has made all of us to look at her family a certain way because according to my girlfriend she pays all the bills, bought this house, and put her education on hold for them all, and none of it is true. In my opinion I can’t see myself being with someone who would lie about this. If she feels a need to lie about this what else would she lie about in the future? When I ask her to be honest with me about it she’s telling me that she’s been nothing but honest. Her family had no idea that she’s been telling other people any of this. How should I go about things moving forward?