If he wanted to make it halal he would?
Called off our wedding due to his family constantly stalling wedding planning, setting unusual goal posts (kept shifting once met). His mother also was very passive aggressive with communication and stonewalled my parents i.e never picked up the phone.
My family and married friends said this was the usual mummy’s boy case who needs validation or approval with every decision made along the way.
Stepping back felt like the right thing to do if he couldn’t take leadership of our marriage timeline. Been in no contact for 3+ months since.
I reactivated my socials. Before removing him, I could see him post and repost depressing content relating to heartbreak, wanting to get back together, praying for his naseeb, praying for allah to reconcile etc
What i found weird is how quickly he could jump onto using that as an outlet than actually tackling the root cause issue. It’s like he wanted to paint himself as the victim for why it didn’t work? I got my own set of parents to convince, i can’t also do his job in sorting his parents…
It made me think, if you really wanted someone so bad, you wouldn’t be doing all this noise online, you’d sort out the main issues. My father and family agree. Input from other men ideally would be great. Can you make it work regardless of your family dynamics and situation?