I (19F) stayed at my sister’s house for a couple of days. First we went to a flea market and everything was fine. When we got back to her house, we got into a situation. She offered me cake and I said no multiple times, but she kept pushing and insisting I try it anyway. It escalated to her trying to physically bring it toward my mouth and I had to knock the fork out of her hand multiple times and stand up on the couch just to get her to stop. I felt uncomfortable because my “no” wasn’t being respected. She also said something like I would’ve eaten it if my girlfriend offered, which felt like guilt-tripping. After that I left briefly to put money on my card so I could change my ticket. Later we still went to a ramen shop and things were normal, but I still didn’t feel right about everything. I ended up leaving early the next morning instead of staying longer. I’ve had issues in the past with people not respecting my boundaries and I’m trying to unlearn being a people pleaser, so when I feel pushed like that I tend to remove myself. Am I overreacting for leaving early?
I left this morning and currently on the way back home but my mom says “it’s family , sisters argue all the time”
well nobody is seeing where i’m coming from..,