u/Dry_Package8961

I had a very emotional friend; she was an ENFP. When I did something normal that she didn't like, she would explode with anger. For example: I used to take the bus to and from school with her, but sometimes I didn't want to go back with her and preferred to stay at school with other friends. She would get angry; you could see it on her face, she even cursed at me once. She was very clingy and all that. I started therapy to distance myself from her because, even though she was like that, our friendship was strong; I liked her, but I felt trapped and held hostage by her emotions.

Despite trying to ignore it, sometimes it's difficult, so what do you do?

I only dressed up for college because I liked a girl, and if I were ugly I wouldn't forgive myself... When she ended up dropping out, I completely rediscovered myself... It was like my reason for being vain disappeared.

Then I realized I only make a huge effort to get dressed up for others to see, not for myself...

And now I only go to the gym because in the future I can find out a girl or only have a sex with her, but I’m very lazy because today in the college. When I was at the school I had a girl I liked, so I dedicated myself more to dressing well and looking good.

Today I act thinking about the future.

I'm very attentive to my surroundings and people, noticing details like clothing, appearance, expressions, and behaviors, and I'm always alert to what's happening around me, especially in situations like driving, where I think about potential risks and negative scenarios.

I'm anxious and frequently reflect on how I should act, what to say, how I'm being perceived, and whether I'm making a good impression. At the same time, I imagine many future scenarios, both negative and idealized, such as success, fame, relationships or romantic encounters, and sex. I feel jealous even though I don't have that person.

I care a lot about my appearance, image, and looking my best, but I also value comfort and physical pleasures, like food, bed, and well-being. I go to the gym more for aesthetics, attraction, and validation than for health. I'm competitive, especially when other people are watching or when I want to attract attention and stand out.

Socially, I'm extroverted and enjoy interacting, debating, and receiving attention, but at home I'm quieter, focused on personal interests, studies, self-development, or entertainment.

I am very curious and love studying subjects that spark my interest, such as English, self-knowledge, or MBTI, but I struggle with routine, discipline, and attention, easily abandoning activities that become monotonous or boring.

Despite appearing rational or laid-back, I have many inner feelings, but I don't like to express them. A pain related to these feelings always comes over me; if I think about something, I immediately feel it, I know where it comes from, but I don't like to dwell on these feelings.

I tend to fall in love easily, especially with beautiful people or those who give me attention, creating fantasies about relationships and intimacy, and sex I think about what sex with this person would be like, although I'm also afraid of the responsibilities of a commitment.

Overall, I see myself as someone observant, competitive, concerned with image, pleasure, validation, future possibilities, and with some difficulty focusing, disciplined, and stable.

I love debating, I want to win, I see all perspectives, but it has to be an argument that works based on reality. That's why I debate online; I find people very stupid, especially regarding politics. And when I go to college, I worry about my clothes, whether they will accentuate my muscles, but I also want comfort. My memory is terrible.

Do you enjoy being touched? I, for example, get goosebumps when someone I'm interested in touches me, I really like that.

I've seen some posts saying that ENTPs, and especially ESTPs, can be impulsive and fall in “love” easily, but with several people at the same time.

I already posted on the ENTP and ESTP subreddits, but the reports were different for each. Now I've combined them here for a fairer "typing" of the data.
I’m having trouble figuring out my MBTI type and currently I'm somewhere between ENTP and ESTP. I'm very attentive to my surroundings and people, noticing details like clothing, appearance, expressions, and behaviors, and I'm always alert to what's happening around me, especially in situations like driving, where I think about potential risks and negative scenarios. I'm anxious and frequently reflect on how I should act, what to say, how I'm being perceived, and whether I'm making a good impression. At the same time, I imagine many future scenarios, both negative and idealized, such as success, fame, relationships or romantic encounters, and sex. I feel jealous even though I don't have that person.

I care a lot about my appearance, image, and looking my best, but I also value comfort and physical pleasures, like food, bed, and well-being. I go to the gym more for aesthetics, attraction, and validation than for health. I'm competitive, especially when other people are watching or when I want to attract attention and stand out.

Socially, I'm extroverted and enjoy interacting, debating, and receiving attention, but at home I'm quieter, focused on personal interests, studies, self-development, or entertainment. I am very curious and love studying subjects that spark my interest, such as English, self-knowledge, or MBTI, but I struggle with routine, discipline, and attention, easily abandoning activities that become monotonous or boring.

Despite appearing rational or laid-back, I have many inner feelings, but I don't like to express them. A pain related to these feelings always comes over me; if I think about something, I immediately feel it, I know where it comes from, but I don't like to dwell on these feelings. I tend to fall in love easily, especially with beautiful people or those who give me attention, creating fantasies about relationships and intimacy, and sex—I think about what sex with this person would be like, although I'm also afraid of the responsibilities of a commitment. Overall, I see myself as someone observant, competitive, concerned with image, pleasure, validation, future possibilities, and with some difficulty focusing, disciplined, and stable.

My main challenge is that I consider myself too intellectual and observant for an ESTP and too focused on pleasure and aesthetics for an ENTP. I love debating, I want to win, I see all perspectives, but it has to be an argument that works based on reality. That's why I debate online; I find people very stupid, especially regarding politics. And when I go to college, I worry about my clothes, whether they will accentuate my muscles, but I also want comfort. My memory is terrible.

I've seen people say that being extroverted means leaving the house, but is that really true? Because, from what I've read, it only has to do with focusing on external things. For example, I love staying home in my bed, eating and using my phone, but I feel bad if I don't go out, don't go to the gym or to college, even though I'm lazy. I don't feel like going out, but if I don't go out for too long, I get anxious, feel bad, and have the feeling that I'm missing out on something.

I'll try to be detailed and direct. I'm not sure if I'm an ESTP; if you have another guess, feel free to share.

I'm people-oriented, noticing everything from clothes to small physical details. I'm competitive, especially for attention or when people or someone I'm interested in are watching.

I like the texture of my bed, I love to eat, although I'm always mentally counting calories. I go to the gym not for health, but to attract women and have sex in the future. I like studying what interests me, but I hate routine and have little discipline; I like staying in bed.

Socially, I'm very extroverted, and at home, I focus on studying, improving myself, or having fun playing games.

I'm open-minded and can see all sides, although I have my own opinion.
On the internet, I debate with people because seeing stupid comments stresses me out.

I fall in love easily, mainly because of a person's beauty, and I fantasize about the future, like having sex or sleeping cuddled up with that person.

Inside, I have many feelings, but I hate expressing them. I like to look like the best version of myself, but I know my flaws. I care a lot about my appearance, but I also value comfort. I'm anxious, so I worry a lot about how I act.

When I'm driving I pay attention to everything, sometimes I get paranoid and worry about what if something falls on the car, or another car bumps into me, or the cargo falls off the truck in front of me.

I'm anxious, so I keep thinking about how to act, what I should say or how I should behave, where to park, if someone is watching. I see many possibilities, but I also think: what if this falls and kills someone? What if my cell phone falls out of the car? I observe the person's clothes, their haircut, why they're making that hand gesture or why they have that serious face.

I worry a lot about my appearance, but I also value comfort, always a paranoid or obsessive "what if" about the person's appearance, and there's always an underlying question: why? It seems like a "what if," but I also think I'm very calculating.

I don't act impulsively; I like to observe. Although I'm quite extroverted, I also really like to fantasize, like imagining myself in the future famous and rich, or on a date with a girl. Something that also makes things difficult is that at home I'm very quiet and egocentric. What am I going to do now? I have difficulty concentrating, but I'm always doing different things, like studying self-awareness, studying English, or playing video games. I'm quite competitive, and when I study MBTI, I think of a type that would be cool for others to see and compliment me on.

I'm very curious; I love studying things that interest me, but in a book, I jump straight to what interests me and ignore the rest. If it gets boring, I stop. I have difficulty with attention and spatial awareness. I'm also very lazy. I go to the gym and study English, but I have problems with discipline; I get lost in my thoughts, which also hinders me.

One of my main questions is whether, being ESTP or ENTP, I have many internal feelings. I feel them, but I can't explain why, and that always bothers me. I'm careful and attentive; I get stressed when someone stands out more than me, but I don't show it. I fall in love easily, especially with beautiful people or if the beautiful person pays attention to me, but I fall in love with many different people because of their beauty. I'm afraid of dating and having too much responsibility with the person. I love my bed.

I'm anxious, so I keep thinking about how to act, like what I should say or how I should behave, where to park, is anyone watching?
I really enjoy eating but I hold back because of my goal. I like listening to many different types of music, and I always think about what sex would be like depending on the person.

I think I see a lot of possibilities, but like: what if this falls and kills someone? What if my phone falls out of the car? Look at that person's clothes, their haircut, and why they're making that hand gesture, or why they have that serious face. It's always a kind of paranoid or obsessive "what if" about the person's appearance, and there's always an underlying question: why? That sounds like "what if," but I also think I'm very calculating. I don't jump straight into action; I like to observe.

Although I'm quite extroverted, I also really like to fantasize, like seeing myself in the future famous and rich, or on a date with a girl. Something that also makes it difficult is that at home I'm very quiet and self-centered. What am I going to do now? I lack focus, but I'm always doing different things like studying self-knowledge, studying English, or playing games. I'm quite competitive, and when studying MBTI, I think of an MBTI that would be cool for other people to see and praise me for.

I'm very curious, I love studying things that interest me, but in a book, I'll skip to what I want and disregard the rest. If it gets boring, I stop. I'm bad with attention and spatial awareness. I'm also very lazy. I go to the gym and study English, but I have trouble with discipline; I get lost in my thoughts, something that also hinders me. One of my main questions is whether, being an ESTP or ENTP, I have many feelings inside. I feel them, but I can't explain why, and it always hurts.

I'm careful and attentive; I get stressed inside when someone shines brighter than me, but I don't let it out. I fall in love easily, especially with beauty or if the beautiful person pays attention to me, but I fall in love with many different people because of their beauty. I'm afraid of dating and having a lot of responsibility with the person.

For example go to the gym, or make a diet plan

Can someone explain this to me with practical examples of usage? How would someone use it? Especially ENTP and ESTP?