u/Dry-Rush-5309

Celibacy is killing me

I have been trying to do better choices for myself and got out of the dating apps and took a break from dating in general. The thing is, nothing satisfies my needs and I am going insane.

How do you girls do it?? I need tips and tricks

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u/Dry-Rush-5309 — 2 days ago

As the title says, I have been trying to figure out how to be more flexible with my dating preferences. I normally find older men more attractive but I feel like they are not good for me. They see me as unserious or they want different things. I want to have a long term partner and being with a 40 year old man as a 26f is not really ideal to later in life have kids and get married.

I’m not saying it’s impossible or wrong but my experience tells me I might be choosing them for this reason exactly, because the long term plans are more uncertain.

Has anyone experienced this and changed their preferences to match what they think it’s better for them and not what they find attractive?

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u/Dry-Rush-5309 — 11 days ago
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Hello!

I am 26f and I just started to learn salsa! I feel like I have been pushed by the people around me to use it as a way to meet men. I feel like that’s a little inappropriate but would like to have some perspective.

Since I have showed up alone to classes and socials, people are always telling me about success couples that met through dancing! It’s so awkward!

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u/Dry-Rush-5309 — 11 days ago