I am really struggling. My ex and I were together for 2 months. He is 42 and I am 35. We had the most beautiful relationship. He was calm, understanding, loving. He called all of the time and ask to see me daily, even if we just went for a walk.
On Monday we went shopping for a toy. We had regular conversation. He hugged me multiple times, kissed me. After we separate he called two times and on the last conversation he told me that we will speak in the morning. Next morning he didn’t call which was unusual but I wasn’t worrier. About 1 pm I tried calling him and he didn’t pick up. As he had some back pain for over a week I got worried honestly that something happened. I sent him a text to let me know is he okay. He responded around 5pm with “I am well, sorry I didn’t call I was thinking and this is not it for me. Hope that you can respect this and don’t reach out anymore”. I tried calling him and then he blocked me on everything. I am still in shock. We were great together, it was the most beautiful and compatible relationship I ever had.
I was once with avoidant but I would always sense when he was about to discard me. With this one I didn’t see it coming at all.
Is he seems avoidant or not? Or just not interested? I would never forgive him for betraying me like this but I would like for him to reach out just so that I can make sense on what made him do this. Like everything was great we were chating and laughing a day before. He wanted to spend time with me and then just one message and I am blocked? Like someone flip the switch. I feel awful, like I am gonna die. Can’t sleep or eat at all….