u/DistributionSorry485

I was just browsing this sub and thinking about what I believe in terms of the science vs hype of no fap.

Without getting to into it, I will say it takes amazing discipline to be going weeks-months etc. I have never gone that long.

I may try it as I’m a fairly disciplined person. But even for me, someone who’s been in the gym for 10+ years 5/6 days a week… I don’t know if I can do it.

Anyway I just wanted to let you all know , who are on a streak , that I am impressed. I think if you have a normal to strong sex drive and can go even 30 days, is very impressive.

I’m sure you can accomplish anything you put your mind to if you can do that.

Can someone give it to me straight. Like why should I attempt a streak? The no BS version if possible

Hi everyone,

I’ve been thinking about the passive aggressive people in my life currently and in the past and I have a sort of theory about how they end up this way

The really bad ones I’ve dealt with all had very selfish and unrealistic expectations. Such as “I’ve been here longer so I’m in charge of you”

I think they must have been humiliated/rejected for expressing their unpopular (and usually plain wrong) beliefs in the past, and have stopped directly addressing their belief/feeling with others.

Instead now they don’t talk about it, they just jump to punishing you for the perceived slight. Maybe this is just a particular breed of person, but it appears like the tactic of aggression for people who are too stubborn to change their beliefs.

Most people when confronted with proof of their wrong beliefs would eventually learn. But these types say, “oh well I can’t be wrong but il be careful to hide this”

Hope this makes sense to some of you. Again this may be a subtype of Passive Aggressive personality