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TL;DR Bf having attitude issues after denied of sex

I (22F) & my bf (23M) have been together for nearly 3 years. Over the years, one of our main issue in the relationship is sex. Sex is ALWAYS an issue for us. At the beginning of our relationship, I angrily told him that he had a small dick and obviously i’ve regretted that since that day. So now it’s always issues about if I’m enjoying it or not ( I’ve literally enjoyed every single time we’ve had sex). However now there’s a new issue. I’ve been having extreme pelvic pain and the doctor hasn’t found anything but I think might have an interstitial cystitis. So now i’m in constant pain and I haven’t been horny so we haven’t had sex in a few days (We still had sex normally). Normally touching my nipples is the easiest way to turn me on but lately I haven’t felt horny. I do have major depression and anxiety as well. But since I’ve been denying him sex, he’s just gotten a bit meaner and been having attitudes towards me. Constantly wanting me to go home after I say no or just having an attitude with me. I don’t even know what to do anymore. Does anyone know what I can do to fix things? I’m not sure what exactly I can do

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u/Distinct_Ad5111 — 14 days ago

TL;DR Bf having attitude issues after denied of sex

I (22F) & my bf (23M) have been together for nearly 3 years. Over the years, one of our main issue in the relationship is sex. Sex is ALWAYS an issue for us. At the beginning of our relationship, I angrily told him that he had a small dick and obviously i’ve regretted that since that day. So now it’s always issues about if I’m enjoying it or not ( I’ve literally enjoyed every single time we’ve had sex). However now there’s a new issue. I’ve been having extreme pelvic pain and the doctor hasn’t found anything but I think might have an interstitial cystitis. So now i’m in constant pain and I haven’t been horny so we haven’t had sex in a few days (We still had sex normally). Normally touching my nipples is the easiest way to turn me on but lately I haven’t felt horny. I do have major depression and anxiety as well. But since I’ve been denying him sex, he’s just gotten a bit meaner and been having attitudes towards me. Constantly wanting me to go home after I say no or just having an attitude with me. I don’t even know what to do anymore.

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u/Distinct_Ad5111 — 14 days ago