I’ve always heard of people seeing orbs show up on camera, but I’ve never heard of a medium mentioning seeing them in person. I’ve been able to see the supernatural since I was a child, but I’ve never felt as overwhelmed with fear as I did when I saw an orb. Does anyone have information about them or personal experiences to share?
I’m looking for outside perspective on a dynamic I experienced with my surgeon because I genuinely can’t tell if I’m misreading things or not.
Over the course of several appointments, I started noticing a pattern that felt more personal than what I would expect from a typical doctor–patient interaction. He paid a lot of attention to my emotional state and would point out when I wasn’t smiling, saying it threw him off to see me serious. When he wanted me to open up, he would lower his voice and speak in a softer, more intimate way.
There was also a lot of physical contact that didn’t always feel strictly necessary. He would touch my arm or shoulder while talking to me, and one time he massaged my shoulder. During post-op photos, he lowered my jacket for positioning, and it felt like a moment where he became a bit self-aware. Another time he grabbed my sleeve to check the label because he was curious about the brand. He also consistently commented on my appearance, often telling me I was stylish and showing a lot of interest in what I was wearing.
At the end of one visit, he gave me a side hug. On a later visit, he asked me for one more hug for the road, and that one was front-facing. About five minutes after that, he came back and asked for another extra hug again, which stood out to me.
Emotionally, he sometimes came across almost boyish or excited around me. There were moments where he seemed really happy to see me, and when we talked about my next appointment he mentioned being disappointed it would be months before seeing me again. One time when we were saying goodbye, he looked kind of sad and even hung his head a bit.
For context, I’m a model, actress, and content creator, and he was very aware of that. He would ask to see my social media and would have me take out my phone during appointments. At the same time, he would also direct me to review his business social media with him, even though I had already mentioned that he had strong numbers, like a solid following and good views.
We also had a virtual visit once where he appeared dressed up in designer clothing with what looked like a very upscale mansion-style foyer in the background, which felt more curated or intentional than a typical casual telehealth setting.
He’s also made personal comments that stood out. He’s called me beautiful and cute, and at one point he asked what I thought about his aura. He also asked about my relationship status, whether I was married or engaged, which felt a little personal in that setting.
I’ll be honest, I really like him, so I’m aware that could be affecting how I’m interpreting everything. That’s why I’m asking. I don’t want to project something that isn’t actually there.
Do these behaviors sound like they could still fall within a surgeon just being friendly and attentive, or does this come across as more personal than what’s typical?