u/DiorGirl2023

I don’t know if I am being unreasonable, but it saddens me last month I had sex with my partner twice. He doesn’t stay home 24/7, he is a pipeliner and works two hours away from home and stays in our RV. He comes every weekend and sometimes once a day during the week. We had an argument and we had no intimacy at all for like two weeks. We went on a roadtrip and he is the one that drives all the time but today we got home and he knows the girls will sleep late tonight but he doesn’t even touch me kind of at all, it feels weird like how does a man not want to be all over his wife or think about sex once we get home. He already went to sleep because he’s tired but he didn’t even tell me you wake me up through the night or you he didn’t even say “let me put in alarm to wake up early to have sex”. I have already told him how I feel weird we don’t have sex for long when we get into an argument and he turns it on me. I really thought tonight he was going to try to stay awake late with me so we can have sex. How do I even take this? I don’t want to beg for sex at all, do I just wait until he makes the first move?

I don’t know if I am being unreasonable, but it saddens me last month I had sex with my partner twice. He doesn’t stay home 24/7, he is a pipeliner and works two hours away from home and stays in our RV. He comes every weekend and sometimes once a day during the week. We had an argument and we had no intimacy at all for like two weeks. We went on a roadtrip and he is the one that drives all the time but today we got home and he knows the girls will sleep late tonight but he doesn’t even touch me kind of at all, it feels weird like how does a man not want to be all over his wife or think about sex once we get home. He already went to sleep because he’s tired but he didn’t even tell me you wake me up through the night or you he didn’t even say “let me put in alarm to wake up early to have sex”. I have already told him how I feel weird we don’t have sex for long when we get into an argument and he turns it on me. I really thought tonight he was going to try to stay awake late with me so we can have sex. How do I even take this? I don’t want to beg for sex at all, do I just wait until he makes the first move?

Realistically is this normal? I don’t know how to take this.

So I had made a post here about a few days ago, venting about how me and my partner had a small argument but everyone since then nothing got fixed. We made time one night to talk on the phone and he told me he was falling asleep and we just hung up. I texted him two days ago I wasn’t going to bother him anymore about talking to him over the argument as it seems I was the only one after him to talk, he told me we could talk saturday but he drove home since he works 2 hours from here and stays in his rv. He has been coming for 4 days straight and although I understand he can be tired, he isn’t making the time to talk. My daughters are asleep already and he is asleep in the living room. He doesn’t give me affection, he doesn’t kiss me, doesn’t text me he wants to talk asap, we are literally acting like co parents living together. A few years ago he was worse where he was okay being like this for a whole month. He has some other good qualities like working hard, but I don’t even know how he can treat me like this for so long. We have had sex only twice this month, today he came again and I rarely even talk to him because I feel very uncomfortable how he is acting. I cry everyday because my parents never gave me a good relationship example and I don’t want my daughters suffering in two different house holds. I really don’t want that, what do I do know? I truly think he doesn’t love me anymore.