u/Different-Courage665

Shooting my shot with a friend?

I (31F) met someone (32F) through work four years ago, we hit it off, hung out a few times, went on a date, I told her via text I was in to her, she said she reciprocated but due to a past relationship, doesnt date coworkers. We've since become great friends, hang regularly, I flirt with her a little, its a chill time.

Now, I work elsewhere, we're both single and the crush has grown again recently and Im wondering whether/when I should bring it up.

I thinks shes fantastic, she makes me feel calm and confident in a way im not used to. But I cant get a good read between whether she just really really likes me as a friend or if she is interested.

I will likely say something to her but we have upcoming plans away together in a group of my friends, i just dont want to make her feel uncomfortable and therefore dont know how to time it.

TL;DR met a girl, got a crush, got friend zoned as shitting where eating. Years later, not coworkers, crush is back. What do?

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u/Different-Courage665 — 19 hours ago

Shooting my shot with a friend?

Background,

I met someone through work, hit it off, hung out a few times, went on a date, I told her via text I was in to her, she said she reciprocated but due to a past relationship, doesnt date coworkers (which i think is 100% fair). We've since become great friends, hang regularly, I flirt with her a little, its a chill time.

Now, years later,

I work elsewhere, we're both single and the crush has grown again recently and Im wondering whether/when I should bring it up.

I thinks shes fantastic, she makes me feel calm and confident in a way im not used to but I cant get a good read between weather she just really likes me as a friend or if she is interested.

I will likely say something to her but we have upcoming plans away together in a group of my friends, i just dont want to make her feel uncomfortable and therefore dont know how to time it.

Give me your tipssss, im just a baby gay!

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u/Different-Courage665 — 20 hours ago