u/Dense_Lawyer_666

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AITAH for leaving without calling my friend before leaving after she was late to our meet up?

I made an error in the heading.. it is AITAH for leaving without calling my friend after she was late to our meet up?

So I F23 have a friend F24.. we have been friends since childhood and we are tight.. we text almost everyday and call whenever we have time..

she has been living abroad for a few months and came back this week and she has wanted to meet me since then.. I said I'm free this weekend and so we decided to meet.. now, in the morning, she went out with a friend who is also her ex boyfriend.. I was at the mall watching a movie that ended at 5 and we were supposed to meet at 5.30.. my dad and brother were there too watching another movie that was supposed to end at 5.50.. so I started shopping while waiting for her.. she said her and her ex bf had some work and as soon as she's free, she'll come.. at 5.50, I met my brother and dad and we went to complete some work.. till 6.20, she hadn't called me so I left..

I texted her and said I'm leaving, we'll meet next week and next time, don't call me if u have other commitments.. she called and apologized and said she can drive to my place and asked if we can we meet for sometime.. I said no, we'll meet next week..

Then she texted me and apologized.. she said she understood it was her fault bt I could have called her or compromised a bit and we were going to meet after so long as she had done the same for me so many times which is true even tho I have never made her wait for so long bt I have canceled plans last minute after she drove to my apartment.. idk if I'm overreacting or if what she did was fucked up.. am I the asshole for what I did?

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u/Dense_Lawyer_666 — 5 days ago

So for context, I'm working rn.. it's a really chill job that I do like bt im not really satisfied and I would love to do something creative.. bt im so confused on how to start and I drew these cards..

My interpretation is that firstly, since its all swords, it shows a lot of mental energy.. this makes me think I'm not actually stuck and it's all in my head.. the ace of swords I think wants to say that i need to make a clear decision.. Firstly I should be clear on if im actually committed to this.. the king of swords feels like it wants me to take authority of my life.. it is asking me to stop waiting to get permission from others and to stop waiting for a sign.. I need to take responsibility of my life and lead.. lastly, the page of swords I feel is asking me to start taking actions.. it is asking me to take baby steps.. I don't have to quit my job today bt I must start from somewhere..

u/Dense_Lawyer_666 — 15 days ago
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So I'm 23F and I've never had sex before.. I want to wait until I find someone I want to get that close with.. all this while, I always imagined my first time to be perfect.. not in the sense that we would be able to do it perfectly bt that it would be full of love and ill feel loved and sure at the end of it.. bt after to a lot of my girlfriends and reading this book called 11 minutes, I have sort of realized that for most people, sex is boring and they don't experience pleasure.. also most women are not able to orgasm and that made me so sad..😭😭

Is it true and if so, what is a realistic expectation to have.?

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u/Dense_Lawyer_666 — 15 days ago