Hello, I have a new girlfriend since some days now. We’ve been dating for a couple of weeks already and when I meet her everything is good, no issues or anything.
However, I can only see her 1-2 times a week because she lives in another city and we both work/study.
She barely texts me and when I text her she responds very dry most of the time. She also doesn’t seem to mind not seeing me that often, I’m usually the one proposing stuff. She ignores when I call her smth cute and she also only sends me good night or good morning when I send it first.
If I was only texting with her I would think I’m annoying her or that she really has no interest in me whatsoever. I’ve also asked her irl if she doesn’t like the nicknames or good morning messages but she said she does..
But then when I meet her everything is normal and nice. She has been this way since I’ve started dating her. She also was the one initiating kisses etc and she also asked me if we wanted to be together.
Also possibly important information is that she’s not shy, but she really is inexperienced and she never had a real relationship before. I have some experience but also not a lot when it comes to relationships.
So I’m just trying to accept that this is the way she is over text. Real life is much more important anyways. But it still gives me an odd or bad feeling, especially if I didn’t see her for some days.
Has anyone had a similar experience or could advise me what to do?
I’m also walking a little bit on eggshells because technically she has had a relationship last year that lasted 2 weeks that she ended because according to her the guy crashed out over her not texting him enough.
So I don’t want to pressure her too much into behaving a certain way, but I also don’t wanna constantly question where I stand.