u/Defiant_Possession59

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Summer Aid

I recently got a No enrollment/ Diploma hold on my account and my anticipated aid currently says 0, does anyone know when summer aid (if i get any) will be made available to be seen for me ?

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u/Defiant_Possession59 — 21 hours ago

So a while back ago in I believe it was 2024 I caught my girlfriend lying to me about talking to guys. I caught her talking to two guys at the same time from work, But I never confronted her about it until she caught me looking and got mad at me about it. I never had a problem with her having friends of opposite genders, although something that did rub me off the wrong way is she was consistently deleting the messages everytime she was handing me her phone to check things such as maps while I was driving.

She swore to me she never flirt with them which I just find odd in why she would delete the messages then if she never did. But I was moved on and I was like okay whatever I’ll keep moving on. A couple months pass by and I asked her if those two guys ever flirted with her and she said yes they did approach her in a flirty way and even invited her to go out just them two at times (each guy asked on different occasions). Which it did bother me but I faced the fact I can’t control it either way.

Fast forward to 2026 Her co workers were talking about going out and the plans involved the same co workers that approached her in a flirty way. In which I gave her the opportunity to tell me and I asked “Are any of the people from a while ago going”. In which she responded “No”. Which was obviously a blatant lie. I haven’t confronted her about it nor does she know that I know she lied to me, but I’m not sure how to feel about it.

Is this a lack of respect to me for lying to me? Or Is it worth confronting her about it? To me it just kinda seems like she’s willing to lie to hangout with a dude that hit on her and it seems kinda odd to me? I’m not totally sure how to feel though.

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u/Defiant_Possession59 — 10 days ago