u/Defiant-Mechanic430

Should i seek a psychologist?

Hello, I've been having some problems and was wondering if this is the right time for professional help. I've never been to a psychologist in my life, always thought i could handle my stress and mental, but now it's just getting overwhelming. Before i tell you my symptoms, I need to let you know that I have IBS and because of flare-ups, i do get very angry sometimes. The symptoms are:

  1. Getting very angry/irritated even at petty things
  2. Getting emotionally triggered even by the smallest things sometimes
  3. Brain fog sometimes so much that i feel like i'm in a dream (this happens most of the times)
  4. Forgetfulness, although i remember having such a strong memory, that i would memorize things just by looking once
  5. Thinking about situations a lot even before they happen and always drawing negative or aggressive conclusions and getting myself ready for that
  6. Anxiety, sometimes so much that i don't even feel safe inside my home
  7. Never feeling safe anywhere and always in "fight or flight" mode
  8. Can't decide how to act 'Good" to people because of the overwhelming emotions, they seem like controlling me
  9. Stress, that never leaves my head
  10. Negative self talk and hating people for nothing sometimes or just petty things and not being rational Please suggest based on the above things if i need professional help or not, or am i just overthinking because i do a lot
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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 1 day ago

Do i need a therapist?

Hello, I've been having some problems and was wondering if this is the right time for professional help. I've never been to a psychologist in my life, always thought i could handle my stress and mental, but now it's just getting overwhelming. Before i tell you my symptoms, I need to let you know that I have IBS and because of flare-ups, i do get very angry sometimes. The symptoms are:

  1. Getting very angry/irritated even at petty things

  2. Getting emotionally triggered even by the smallest things sometimes

  3. Brain fog sometimes so much that i feel like i'm in a dream (this happens most of the times)

  4. Forgetfulness, although i remember having such a strong memory, that i would memorize things just by looking once

  5. Thinking about situations a lot even before they happen and always drawing negative or aggressive conclusions and getting myself ready for that

  6. Anxiety, sometimes so much that i don't even feel safe inside my home

  7. Never feeling safe anywhere and always in "fight or flight" mode

  8. Can't decide how to act 'Good" to people because of the overwhelming emotions, they seem like controlling me

  9. Stress, that never leaves my head

  10. Negative self talk and hating people for nothing sometimes or just petty things and not being rational
    Please suggest based on the above things if i need professional help or not, or am i just overthinking because i do a lot

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 1 day ago

How do you work from home?

Just how do you stay consistent, while working at home, cuz it's really hard to be around your family and not get distracted easily, so how do you people stay focused?

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 1 day ago

Is it good?

I want to start making content focused on education. Basically, the idea is that students are just told to memorize stuff without even telling them the real world application of the information being fed to them.
So i want to create youtube videos, or courses for students so that they might get a better idea about their choosen professions and also, knowledge being fed doesn't go wasted.
Now do you think it has the potential to pay me good if i create 3d animations to explain simple concepts from books to the students?

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 3 days ago

How to handle criticism?

Yeah everywhere all the time, some people are just rude cuz they're just having a bad day and decide to lash out on you. So, i was wondering, if i give them the response, doesn't that make me as bad as them? And if i don't and bear with their rudeness. then some people won't stop until you scream at them to stop. How do you think one should handle this? Also, i was wondering what the difference is between self loving and being egoistic?

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 4 days ago

What job should i apply for?

I really need one, but the thing is i have huge interest in blender and 3d animation, can't find a job there so i'm just applying for every random basic job out there, it has to be remote. is it right? or should i apply for the jobs related to my interest. The problem is i have freelance experience and companies don't seem to trust that ig

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 5 days ago

Looking for work

I am a 3d artist and specialize in Blender, been learning and working on projects since three years now. I didn't get a lot of projects, just one every month which pays the bills. Right now, just hustling and looking for a long term project or a job, it'd be better if it's remote because i can't afford to leave my family. I live in Rawalpindi though. If you know someone in your circle who might need a 3d designer, refer me to them.
Thanks!

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 5 days ago

Sometimes, when you're hustling hard and pushing all you got, there are moments when you feel like you're pushing yourself into a void and that nothing will get out of the effort you're putting, even though you have experienced some results before, but sometimes, that feeling just comes and makes you so lazy. if you have experienced this, how do you deal with it?

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u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 7 days ago

Hello! I am a blender artist and have almost 2 years of experience doing some modelling and baking to be integrated in the game engines.

Looking for a long term opportunity in the right place to grow my skills better, since I've been freelancing so there is very little opportunity to learn and grow from my mistakes, a mentor would lead better. I'd appreciate it if you or someone who you know can hire me.

My Portfolio: https://www.artstation.com/talhatazim1

This doesn't include everything since some work needs the client's permission before being posted

Thanks in advance!

u/Defiant-Mechanic430 — 15 days ago