checking for a friend
he is an indian working in JP Morgan Chase (India) w 1 year of experience as a fraud specialist in customer service and previously w 2 years of experience in different customer service centers.
are there any job opportunities in Singapore for him?
(he does not have a graduation degree. will that be of importance?)
is there any brave soul who took that step of independence…living together with their partner without letting parents know. cz if they knew it would be unleashing hell on everyone. and also specially because parents are asking to choose family over him/her. i just wanted to know whether its only in fairy tales or people actually survive like that.
so i’m 28 F Sinhalese ( currently awaiting internship as a doctor) and Ive been dating my partner (banker) 4yrs + . since i was studying at that time i never talked about it with my parents. but after informing them they don’t agree to my relationship and asking me to choose. my parents took care of me for all these years and spend money for my education yes but i love the man deeply and he the same and he supported with me during all my ups and downs and i dont want to lose such a kind person. but my parents are so driven by cultural norms they dont want to accept. i really need advice. he also wants to settle down in sl and willing to learn my language. if i let him go i would have to live with the regret of losing him and also he is hell bent on living by my side even without marriage. he loves me so deeply and i dont want to hurt me. for my parents these are just words of sugarcoats and they literally said that they are okay with me not marrying at all if thats the case. this is not the life i ever dreamt of. i feel so lost and depressed. i just need closure or i might go insane.