r/Sri_Lankan_Dating

so i’m 28 F Sinhalese ( currently awaiting internship as a doctor) and Ive been dating my partner (banker) 4yrs + . since i was studying at that time i never talked about it with my parents. but after informing them they don’t agree to my relationship and asking me to choose. my parents took care of me for all these years and spend money for my education yes but i love the man deeply and he the same and he supported with me during all my ups and downs and i dont want to lose such a kind person. but my parents are so driven by cultural norms they dont want to accept. i really need advice. he also wants to settle down in sl and willing to learn my language. if i let him go i would have to live with the regret of losing him and also he is hell bent on living by my side even without marriage. he loves me so deeply and i dont want to hurt me. for my parents these are just words of sugarcoats and they literally said that they are okay with me not marrying at all if thats the case. this is not the life i ever dreamt of. i feel so lost and depressed. i just need closure or i might go insane.

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Hi, I’m 22, 5'8" (yes, the height matters). I’m pretty straightforward, a bit sarcastic, and I overthink more than I should (working on it… slowly).

I like good conversations with people who can actually hold one, and not having to decode mixed signals like it’s a group project. I’m more into calm, grounded energy than loud chaos.

Not looking for anything forced, just want to meet someone genuine and see where it goes. If you’re respectful, can communicate like an adult, and don’t treat dating like a game, we’ll probably get along.

Bonus points if you’re tall because apparently I’ve developed preferences like a normal person.

Also, respectfully, I won’t reply to just “hey” or “hi.” Put a little effort.
Prefer talking to people around my age range (22–25, maybe 26 max).

If you’re just here to waste time… keep scrolling.

“50s, married, independent, and planning a week away solo. Looking for an easygoing companion to explore, unwind, and enjoy the trip together.”

Have some extra Gs and some time to spend with. Sugar baby and will take care of all the needs and provide well if your Lankan and interested let’s connect any body type or skin tone or age

Hey there, 47 YO guy from the UK, in colombo for the night and bored. Any Females out there want to grab a coffee and watch a movie?

I know this might sound random, but I feel like there are a lot of girls who are open to something like a FWB situation… just hesitant to say it openly.

I’m in a similar place right now — not really looking for anything serious immediately, but also not into something fake or forced. More like starting with a chill vibe, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go.

If you’re someone who’s been thinking the same but never really reached out, maybe this is your sign 🙂

We can just start with a casual chat, no pressure, and take things step by step.

If you’re interested, feel free to message me.

When you meet someone new, what’s the first thing you notice?

Could be their vibe, how they talk, face, hair, or anything else..

Just curious how people notice others at first.