Me (23M) and my fiancée (22F) have been together since childhood. We really haven’t had any problems and we love each other to death. But recently for the past few months she’s been feeling a lot more distant from me… when I talk to her about sex or intimacy in general she doesn’t want to talk about and she looks really troubled. Even with the smallest gestures it’s just “no” “I’m not in the mood.” Or “I don’t want to” every time I ask for a moment of intimacy. I really feel neglected and I’m really frustrated sexually and in general. When I try to talk to her about it only frustrates her more and she apologizes while upset and walks off and it feels like im being punished for wanting to be loved. it’s really making me depressed that the person I’m with doesn’t want a moment of intimacy or romance anymore with me and I started questioning if the problem was myself .
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Me (23M) and my fiancée (22F) have been together since childhood. We really haven’t had any problems and we love each other to death. But recently for the past few months she’s been feeling a lot more distant from me… when I talk to her about sex or intimacy in general she doesn’t want to talk about and she looks really troubled. Even with the smallest gestures it’s just “no” “I’m not in the mood.” Or “I don’t want to” every time I ask for a moment of intimacy. I really feel neglected and I’m really frustrated sexually and in general. When I try to talk to her about it only frustrates her more and she apologizes while upset and walks off and it feels like im being punished for wanting to be loved. it’s really making me depressed that the person I’m with doesn’t want a moment of intimacy or romance anymore with me and I started questioning if the problem was myself .