u/Death_io — reddlx

Guys I'm just burnout because of the expectations of my family and stomach burn of my neighbour and relatives.

I just literally completed my 3rd year now I need to pay my family debt, my educational loan, support my family and live myself. I just barely got a job with a 12 lpa salary. I know it's my duty since I'm the only source of income for my family. I do love to retire my parents. But suddenly increasing the burden of a 20 year old i can't express it.

But what most hurts me is the words they say. It's just less than 10 words but the weight it carries is astronomical. My parents said "unna thanda mulusa nambi irukkom". It just makes me hurt and makes me feel guilty even if I don't do something wrong.

Now I need to clear 45 lakhs of debt with a 12 lpa salary. I know 12 lpa is considered high but the expenses I have are higher than the salary. My neighbours, relatives and friends think my life is settled and just whenever they see me they say " Unakku ennapa un life settled Achu ". To my relatives Bruh you guys just literally stripped off even the last penny from parents and left them with a debt. Now you guys are stomach burnt about my success. To my friends " dai mutta pasangala neenga kadhool and flirt pannum pothu naama Biotechnologist da samthame illama ai and ml padichutu computational Biologists nu oru role athukku oru velai vaangi irukken da ". To my neighbours you guys die quickly " yen da Unagalukkulam prachanaiye irukkathaa da yenda eppa pathalum ennaye pudichukitu thonguringa "

Now the term responsibility makes me sick.

To the people who see this post don't pressure your children. show them the reality but don't pressure them with that. If I didn't get the job I would have done something very wrong. This job finally gave me hope and strength to stand. Yeak it looks cowardly and idiotical but the thought and the influence of the environment I'm in just made me think about it.

If it were only debt i wouldn't even be pressured but they just gave me a list to do before turning 30 like

Build a home
Buy a bike and Car
Get married
Have children

Let me ask will I expire after 30 ahh. Just think in just 10 years of time I need to complete these tasks which will require multiple crores with the current market. What bro it's very wrong bro.

After pouring all my emotions, I'm finally feeling very good.

Guys I Think TVK is Trapped by accepting the alliance of congress think deeply

Congress won't break the INDI Alliance Easily like this for a state assembly election because their goal is 2029 MP Election
DMK also won't allow their own alliance breaking because they have 39 MP and power to control the opposition and ruling parties of south india and the Congress won't offend DMK ( Due to a history of Dravida Kazhakams both DMK AND ADMK acts against the central government before 2015).
Congress was intentionally allied with TVK to trap them from forming alliances with other parties and forming the Government in Tamilnadu
If TVK and Congress are alliance parties then BJP won't make an alliance with TVK. If BJP doesn't then AIADMK Also won't make an alliance.
From this point any party won't leave DMK or ADMK alliance since the Congress moved to TVK
We think the Congress Backstabbed the DMK but I think it's a DMK and Congress joint plan to trap the TVK from forming the alliance.
TVK still needs 6 more members to form their own government so the chances of getting a re-election is increased just by giving 5 MLA to TVK
TVK (sengottayan) should have thought this before accepting the alliance from Congress

Do you think Congress will make a bet to break an alliance a hot topic of south india DMK will easily help them to earn large scale votes in south india.

So from my conclusion I think TVK is officially trapped in a honeytrap

My opinion: I think the TVK won due to hero worship rather than the people thought of changing Dravidam idealogy.

Because electing a candidate 10th class pass out over a Doctorate in chemical engineering and a MIT MBA-Finance graduate (PTR). I don't even think about MKS loss but I just really feel Bad for PTR he was just like Manmohan Singh Of TN

Anyways I hope my prediction will fail the reality we have known is broken.