u/DeathGuardGitz

Sex fades out in long term relationships

Hi, i was kinda hesitant of making this post but decided to do this anyways, maby someone else can relate.

I have faced this situation two times before in serious long time relationships. At start there is alot of sex and facination around my size being above average (7x5,5). But after few years sex starts to fade out partly because of all the hassle around it, like long foreplays, no oral or only oral, If there has been a while some bleeding after and so on.

I know there are alot of reasons for this in long term relationships but all of my exs have told me this as one reason. We are trying to spark up the Flames again with my current SO. She told me that my size is kinda a "thing" for her and that IS why there is alot of hope still.

Anyone else have experiences similar to mine?

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u/DeathGuardGitz — 3 days ago

Sex fades out in long term relationships

Hi, i was kinda hesitant of making this post but decided to do this anyways, maby someone else can relate.

I have faced this situation two times before in serious long time relationships. At start there is alot of sex and facination around me being somewhat above average (7 in by 5,5 in). But after few years sex starts to fade outo because of all the hassle around it, like long foreplays, no oral or only oral, If there has been a while some bleeding after and so on.

I know there are alot of reasons for this in long term relationships but all of my exs have told me this as one reason. We are trying to spark up the flame again with my current SO. She told me that my size is kinda a "thing" for her and our problems are related to other things too.

Anyone else have experiences similar to mine?

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u/DeathGuardGitz — 3 days ago

Bathmate size guide

Hi, a newbie here.

I'm getting a penis pump. I realized that i have lost some size. Im currently 6,5inch/16,5cm long, but i measured it non bonepressed and girth 13,5cm/5,3inch but i have lost propably like an inch in girth.

After some looking into it, I'm quite sure ill get a Bathmate as a new pumper but i have a problem with The size. Is the measurement guide in The website a bonepressed measure or not? I'm either 7 or 8.

Little background. I want that lost size back also because we have had some problems with my SO and we had like a two year break of sex because of her depression. We are getting back to our olis sexual habits and my penis size is somewhat important for her and losing some size during the years has made me abit worried about my penis health.

I'm healthy, natural bodybuilder but getting in My late 30s soon and im very realistic about EQ and i would want to keep it even in My 40s or 50s.

TLDR, getting a Bathmate, is the size bonepressed and and because i have lost some size i feel like I'm uncertain If it should be Bathmate 7 or Bathmate 8.

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u/DeathGuardGitz — 4 days ago