There is this one girl, we have been talking for more than a year now. And last october i found out she was texting another guy (she renamed him with his name and a white heart) naturally, I was shocked and I felt like i overreacted cuz i thought they were texting in a romantic way, which she later confirmed that they were just friends. Everything was great after all that, however since last month she had been acting weird, at first I thought she was drained with all the stress and the exams and stuff, so i just kept acting normal. Few days later I asked one of her friends and she told me that there was a guy way older than me who texted her but she wasnt interested. Her friend gave me more details and she told me that they actually met in real life in the university without le knowing. The same day I met that guy by accident and saw he had pictures of her which i thought was weird. So the next day i talked to her and she told me that i was only overthinking and overreacting and it was only a friend and nothing else. Today she was with le i took her on a date she was acting normal, and then at a certain time she left her phone unattended. I know that what I did was wrong but I went through her phone and I found out she was talking to him he was overly romantic with her and she was kinda responsive (i felt like she was just matching his energy), they were also talking about meeting irl like he would take her on a ride with his car and the last text she sent was « good night💋 » and a cute sticker, which I believe isnt a message we send to a « friend ».
++ she acts like we are dating all the romantic stuff, and calls us most of the time just friends or a bit more than friends
Sorry for my english. Pls tell me what to do
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