u/DartTimeTime

Im looking for some bisexual rights of passage.

I realized I was bi at 34. It's May Second, 2026, at the time of writing. I learned I was bi in the first half of april. I thought I was straight, until then. I love titties too much to be gay, but I now know I love twinks too much to be straight. So I have to be some shade of bi.

What are some bi, rights of passage. I plan on attending my first Pride this summer, but is there anything else? Do people have any recommendations for "bisexual rights of passage"?

It all started off with my gf asking me if I was frustrated. I was. I told her, that I'm frustrated that she won't have an adult conversation with me about how polyamory hurts people.

She straight up denies that most poly people get hurt. She wants scientific papers on harm.

So Im asking people, for scientific papers they might have.

Why does non-monogamy have so many cheerleaders?!

How does one see the mountains of human wreckage, suffering and sheer amounts of pain, and think "this is something I want to defend"?

What insanity is going on here? Addiction is comparable in terms of harm, and people will emphatically decry it. Polyamory, causes similar levels of life long harm and suddenly people are like "oh! Let me defend this toxic behavior!"

I don't understand. Nobody is willing to have a reasonable adult conversation about it. People blindly deny every fact, ignore every statistic, and ignore everyone's stories

They just don't want to hear it.

They don't have a horse in this race, no bets placed, nothing invested one way or the other, yet they'll consistently

I'm having a hell of a time trying to find a support group for people with "p"-trauma.

It's been 16 years and I'm tired of it ruling my life.

I want to leave the trauma and the pain behind and move forward. However its not easy to find support groups for men, especially sexual/relationship ones.

I know this isn't a place for such things to be discussed in detail, so does anyone know where one might find a link or a place where I can find resources?