u/Daisy_of_the_Host

Any hair salon recommendations?

I I really need help with finding a hair salon that ACTUALLY knows how to do hair.
Every time I go to a different salon, the stylist tells me everything the previous stylist did wrong. Then they fix it, then I go to another one and they ask me what happened.
It’s really really frustrating. I have pretty thick hair and it’s curly. I just want to be happy with my hair cut for once lol. Thank you.

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u/Daisy_of_the_Host — 6 days ago

A little nervous to put myself out there like this 😂. But I struggle very much with finding a make up routine that helps enhance my features. I feel like I put make up on and then it doesn’t look like I’m wearing any. Or if I go heavier on make up, I look like a clown. Not sure what would be flattering.
My biggest issue are my eyes. They easily look VERY tired in certain lighting and it’s frustrating(this photo was taken with very good lighting lol) . Or if I put eyeliner on the wrong way, it’ll look weird. Not even sure what my eye shape is.
Any way, all that to say, is I’m very much lost and frustrated 😂

u/Daisy_of_the_Host — 10 days ago

I was recommended this subreddit. I feel like such an idiot and the biggest loser. I’m 33 and I was never taught how to manage my finances. I have zero to show for my work. None. Because the moment I get money in my hands, I spend it. Without me even realizing I’m doing it.

On top of that, I’ve taken out loans that have a 130% interest but I had to because I had zero money to pay for my bills. It’s with opploan and uprova. It’s been horrible.

I’m in $15,000 worth of debt and I keep digging myself into a deeper hole.
I’m making a budget right now for the 200th time and every week I go right back to having $100 in my account because I have so many loans I have to pay off. And I’ve done so many pay later options that when they come around, it all hits at the same time and there goes $300.

No scolding please. I’m already really really down and I don’t know what to do. I just want to be financially capable and be a functioning adult.

I make around 4,000 a month and I just cannot get it together.

I’m not using any pay later options since I’m trying to pay it all off right now. It’s at $1,500. I also give my mom money each month because she’s struggling too. So by the time the end of the month comes around and I give her what I owe, I have nothing

I want to be an adult. I want to live on my own (living with my mom now). I want to just get my stuff
together and I just don’t know how to do it.

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u/Daisy_of_the_Host — 13 days ago

I feel like such an idiot and the biggest loser. I’m 33 and I was never taught how to manage my finances. I have zero to show for my work. None. Because the moment I get money in my hands, I spend it. Without me even realizing I’m doing it.

On top of that, I’ve taken out loans that have a 130% interest but I had to because I had zero money to pay for my bills.

I’m in $15,000 worth of debt and I keep digging myself into a deeper hole.
I’m making a budget right now for the 200th time and every week I go right back to having $100 in my account because I have so many loans I have to pay off. And I’ve done so many pay later options that when they come around, it all hits at the same time and there goes $300.

No scolding please. I’m already really really down and I don’t know what to do. I just want to be financially capable and be a functioning adult.

I make around 4,000 a month and I just cannot get it together.

I’m not using any pay later options since I’m trying to pay it all off right now. It’s at $1,500. I also give my mom money each month because she’s struggling too. So by the time the end of the month comes around and I give her what I owe, I have nothing

I want to be an adult. I want to live on my own (living with my mom now). I want to just get my shit together and I just don’t know how to do it.

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u/Daisy_of_the_Host — 13 days ago