
28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting
hi everyone, firstly I'll start by saying yes, my eyeliner isn't blended into the top of my eye in this photo, it's a little blocky, my bad.
this is usually my go-to look. I use the elf moisturizer foundation with a small amount of finishing powder, I keep my eyes light with minimal eyeshadow, light mascara and do a very tiny eyeliner on the corners. Nothing complicated, easy on my skin, and quick.
I recently attended my nieces wedding dress finding/fitting thing and there were lots of women there. We all were talking about personal lives and when I mentioned I was younger than 30, many of the women were quite shocked. The youngest guess I got was 35. I laughed it off initially but now I'm bothered, as the upcoming wedding is a big deal for me.
I have been kind of a mental case for a few years and only recently found my footing. I'm finally mentally at peace and can talk more normally to people without insane anxiety or having panic attacks. At this event I'll be seeing family I'm close with as well as family that haven't seen me for a while. I'm trying not to care about this, but I want to show how well I'm doing and not be the unmentionable nutcase.
Am I doing something wrong? what could I be improving? today I'm dress shopping and I need to make sure everything is just right. I don't want people to see me and think I'm 10 years older than I am. Or feel like I stick out from others.
I need advice. It is getting to me more than I'd like to admit.