Abortion Help
Regret help I don’t know
My girlfriend (F29) and I (M23) got an abortion a week ago, she was leaning toward keeping it while I was leaning toward not. Obviously I wanted to keep it but everything in my body and mind was telling me not to. I told her everything I felt I didn’t pressure her or force I just told her exactly my feelings I told her if she wanted to go through with it I’d be okay. We aren’t really in the best situation to have a child it but we could have been alright if we’d gone through with it however it was the only choice I could imagine. She kept telling me it’d be a lot easier of a decision if I was supportive and I told her “how can I be when everything in my mind is telling me we can’t do this.” I was there for her the entire time we just fell on different sides of the argument. She decided to do it and we went through with the abortion a week ago I hate myself for it it’s not what I wanted but I felt it was the best option. it’s only hitting her now and she’s telling me how angry she is at me and she’s never going to get over it and how just sad she is. She seems so lost and for good reason I’m trying to be there for her but I feel like I’m the last person she wants to be near at the moment. I’m struggling with the fact I didn’t force her to do it I just told her honestly how I felt about things but because I couldn’t get on her side she resents me. She’s told be how she regrets and can never move past it. What are we supposed to do it’s so painful to see her so sad.