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So she is cold bcs she is not really romantic or emotional w me , and we don't do the small cute things that could make any person happy , i thought about it and asked her and she said that she hates romance and physical touch and pretty much everything that i like , and she says that we shouldn't be dating anyway bcs we are teenagers and we are breaking our parents trust + she says that in religion those things are forbidden

I really love her so I don't know what to do and I don't have experience in relationships so pls help bcs even if we talk and everything i feel cold and lonely ...

I am (15M) she is a (15F) so she hates romance but i like , she is like dry romantically and idk i am suffering from it , i just wanna do the little romantic things w her like going on dates and holding hands or hugging i mean once she said she is ok with holding hands buti don't want her to be ok with it i want her to ask for it or need it not like its just me who want to do it and when i ask her why do u hate romance and ... She uses religion as a shield , idk what to do?

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So I've had this addiction for nearly 6 years to now and I've been trying to stop it for 5 months but I've made no progress , I've got my first gf and i really love her to the point that I've got crazy over her and every time i goon , i suffer i look at myself as a failure and i keep looking at my hand like i did some kind of murder, we promised that we would never hide things so I've told her online , and she cried and said that i am a cheater , i asked for her forgiveness and asked her to help me but she said that she will keep my secret and will help me but she will think about forgiving me for cheating , honestly i didn't know it's cheating so rn i feel dissapointed and disgusted of myself bcs i didn't keep my promise of not cheating , i really want her to forgive me pls help me

So I've had this addiction for nearly 6 years to now and I've been trying to stop it for 5 months but I've made no progress , I've got my first gf and i really love her to the point that I've got crazy over her and every time i goon , i suffer i look at myself as a failure and i keep looking at my hand like i did some kind so murder, we promised that we would never hide things so I've told her online , and she cried and said that i am a cheater , i asked for her forgiveness and asked her to help me but she said that she will keep my secret and will help me but she will think about forgiving me for cheating , honestly i didn't know it's cheating so rn i feel dissapointed and disgusted of myself bcs i didn't keep my promise of not cheating , i really want her to forgive me pls help me