20F every date I went on with a guy turned into me being friendzoned
So i dated 4 guys in the last 2 years and every date with them went really good. With 2 (different) guys I even went on a second date which was honestly really good. I'm a social person so I can laugh with people and really just talk with anyone. I'm not the prettiest girl, but i'm also not ugly?
But the problem is: almost every time I like the boy, but I get the feeling they don't really like me in a more than friends way so it never turns into something.
Why does this happen when the date went really wel: we laughed, we have much in common.... One guy I really thought was the one: we went on a date and we had so much in common, there was a lot of tension, he complimented me and drove me to my house. And after we texted for a few days and then I got ghosted (twice), since then I never heard from him (this was a year ago).
Is it because I'm too easy to get? Do I have to play the 'hard to get' game?
Anyone tips or advice?