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My long distance situationship doesn’t like eating puh (cunnilingus) but I suck his dick and swallow all that.. he’s tasted it (my puh) like ate it for literally 1 minute total. So fast forward like months we are talking otp I’m driving and he’s being rude. He feels bad for not making me cum when we fuck without a vibrator. So I start pushing back and being rude too and clowing him for not being able to make me cum because I can make other women cum (I’m bi). I basically said that he must be terrible. Then he was talking about he doesn’t like the taste and how he has to taste the inside of me blah blah fuck u

I hate sucking his dick but do it for long asf until he busts so
What does it mean that he literally refuses to return the favor?

It’s soooo complicated

So I (22f) met this guy (23m) last year (2025Aug-sept) online and we became good friends texting on socials daily sending eachother media it was cute. I started to feel sexually attracted to him so I would throw him hints through the media we would send like implying he’s cute or that I’m attracted to him
I felt a way about him in December
Like sexually
So I turned up the heat in the convo he asked me for advice like about the girl he was seeing (19f Ik gross)and I gave him advice

He was having problems Turing their dates into a sexual nature . I would joke that I could help but he didn’t take me serious because of my lavender relationship (openly heterosexual obviously) but yea so end of December we get into a fight because he was (in my mind) talking shit about me with in our mutuals on socials. We end up blocking eachother. Literally the next day we unblock and apologize.
So really quick before I continue

He lives 500 miles away from me where my family stays

So in December when we fought I was trying to find a way to hook up with him LOL
anyways so he unblocks me when I’m literally on my way back home 500 miles lol

So fast forward two weeks
It’s super late at night and he was flirting with me so I decided to tell him I wanted him
Sexually
He wanted me too (like that)
Literally the next day I got in a plane and flew to see him

So now to explain more
So when I went to see him he wasn’t dating the girl he mentioned but they were going on dates
And by the time I got to see him they were fucing </3
So I was the other woman or whatever (I’m sorry)
Anyways I’m out there at his house for more than a week
And we having amazing sex and the third day
I say I love him while he is inside me and he doesn’t reply lol
The third day was a Sunday so the next day was Monday and he had work so I went to my family’s house but before I got into the car he kissed me and said he loved me too
So then literally later that day he picks me up after work and he keeps me at his house
I cook for him everything
Playing house I guess
And like since it was so last minute and he was still dating the other girl he had to see her or it would be suspicious
So he went and saw her and made brownies with her 💔😭 at her house
He won’t admit it but he fucked her and didn’t fuck me that night
So before he went I threatened to leave
I didn’t. LOL I went back late
He said he loved me again the ninth day at the airport when he dropped me off
I went back home
500 miles to where I live
And that was in jan so now it’s April lol
And we talk everyday on text
We used to call more but
I started pulling away
I felt he wasn’t taking me seriously
Like up until 2-3 weeks ago we would talk on the phone daily we text daily still but yk
Then the other thing is me pulling away putting my phone on do not disturb and ignoring him basically
So yea he thinks it’s annoying I call and he picks up but when he calls he gets my voicemail
Also when I got home I was pissed about the other girl (even tho I am her) lol and started being a slut (not fuckign anyone) just kissing ofc
I tell him all of it he gets upset and calls me a whore lol
Then the girl he was dating hits me up after he ghosts her
And she’s like don’t talk to him he’s a bad man and he’s broke basically
(I think she had an idea of who I was to him idk tho)
This was in march^
Same month^ I start planning (which I been planning since before I met him 2025)
to go to Mexico i just went April 10
He was so pissed and jealous th whole time (my fam has more money than his)
In Mexico I made out with like 10 people
And ate one girls puss
I didn’t tell him about the puss but he was mad about the kissing

Okay now the advice

He won’t commit to me lol
He won’t talk about our future because idk he’s life sucks
He wants to fuck me and me to not fuck anyone else but him
Says he loves me
But when I said I can move back to where my family stays
He goes “u hit up my ex and ur gonna stalk me”
“I’m scared”
So I haven’t went to go see him
I’m upset with him and I’m wasting time
And money that he doesn’t have to see him
Just to be nothign to each-other
And him to be jealous of everything
And he keeps asking me to come see him
Saying he misses me
He says ily not I love u” through text he’s only said “love you” in person

Extra info
-I met his dad and grandma
-no one else knows about us on socials in our friends but one person and we don’t speak to him anymore
-I do love him (I think)
-HE WONT LET ME BLOCK HIM BRO
He’ll do anything text now all that
——Everytime I’m like omg no I’m wasting my time (he also has these exploding fit where he’s mad) and he’s mean let me get me a nice one with a stable life
-Told me he has abandonment issues idk
-it took him a month tho get rid of their thing together (the 19f)

1)Idk I’m confused are we good only sexually am I wasting my time?
2)Do you guys think he actually loves me
3)Should I go see him (I’m going anyways for my fam but I can just leave him alone)
4)Do u think we have a future based on what I said
5)Is it child like to believe he loves me and we have a future