AITA for being frustrated
The mother of my child went to military training and we were seperated ( Some confusion. We were not on the same page mostly my misjudgement. I was under the impression we would give it time before seeing other people and let the other know.) I have alot to own for the relationship failing (Didn't cheat))
She came back and was kind of flirty with me and it seemed she was kind of getting back to an intimate level with me sending old pics she loved, calling me handsome, etc.. that was my misinterpretation I guess.
She went away to Disney and came back. That was followed by a facetime and asking if I was ready for a difficult conversation.
She told me that she had been seeing someone she met at training for the last two months. And that the next day he was going to be flying from Arkansas to Minnesota to stay at her house for a week with our daughter. I told her that she did say we needed to move on at one point directly even though her actions didn't really show it.. I swallowed my pride and tried to see everything from her perspective. She's a good person. Sometimes good people do silly things..
I would not be surprised if there is a small amount of jealousy that she moved on but I really tried hard to remove that while sorting it out. I mean jealousy can be human nature but I am on the page of what they eat don't make me $h!t.. And to remove myself from any of those kinds of emotions..
I told her that I was holding onto a small amount of hope maybe we would figure it out. Honestly I was doubtful but was trying to give it one last healthy go for our daughter cause we get along so well after the break up. Communication has been so good.. We also had an agreement if we were seeing other people we would tell each other exactly that. (I think there's a difference from a drunken call saying we need to move on and seeing someone and not following through with our agreement.)
I am incredibly frustrated that she thinks it's ok to bring someone to her home she hardly knows while our daughter sleeps there. And those two sleep in her bed. While our daughter sleeps in the room next door. And that it sucked so much for her to drop all of that on me the night before he flew up... ( I get that people need to move on, just not how I would of handled that.)
I really have challenged myself to not feel or seem like a victim. And I didn't word it to make it seem that way either..
Am I in the wrong for being frustrated?